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[–]wendyokoopa1 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (9 children)

number 1: Your dick is not a magical wand that could turn a woman straight. No I don't care how many times you say to me or anyone "You just haven't had ME yet" A lesbian or female centered bi will still possibly give you the eye roll. Most females dating other females are attracted innately to the the entire essence that is a woman. Meaning her spirit, her personality, and her body meaning that yes she isn't a man. You don't have the magical powers to turn a woman back to your gender. That's toxic, abusive thinking. Most normal women get their is seemingly a shortage of normal decent women and yeah I'm not going to argue but preying like a vulture on women and not taking NO MEANS NO regardless of the app you're using will not get you the relationship YOU want.(Not you them) it will get you the opposite. Yes Some women do have men/"Daddy" issues and some Lesbians knew they loved women from birth/puberty. But in the case of Bis that have shifted to primarily dating women only they might have the so called "Men/Daddy" issues and just find dating men disgusting. many have had difficult relationship with men in the past and aren't looking to try again. Let them be. If you really want to attempt to be friend them BE A friend because you truly want to be not because you think you're gonna get in her pants later. Your dick isn't a magic wand nor are you a magician.

BTW I meant the Faux masculine guys.

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

I appreciate you taking the time and energy to type that out for me.

So you're saying you're essentially attracted to femininity? Or femaleness? I know the definitions of each can be nebulous. Are you attracted to masculinity in a woman, because she won't have participated in the culture that turns masculinity in males toxic?

[–]wendyokoopa1 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

I guess both. a nice sweet caring protective type.

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

The protection part sounds masculine to me.

[–]wendyokoopa1 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Mothers don't protect their children?

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Sure but that's just parents' instincts

[–]wendyokoopa1 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Anyways I'm attracted at times to soft butches. Big deal

[–]usehername[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

As long as she doesn't dress like PeeWee Herman, I'm good

[–]wendyokoopa1 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

same

[–]wendyokoopa1 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

mothers don't protect children?