I think the way relationships are set up nowdays is rather inorganic. People should have authorities they can rely upon for guidance in a moral and spiritual way and these values should be mixed up with the nation's culture as well.
Like Baudrillard described, there's a certain violence when it comes to people trying to live up to the standards of modern society. I think this measures have allowed the ruling oligarchies to gain power and for people to be reduced to individual units instead of working as a group. The most ideal thing would be a system in which the nationalist values control society and everyone can rise to the top if they try hard enough.
there doesn't seem to be anything here