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[–]HouseplantWomen who disagree with QT are a different sex 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How does babby form? Noses and melanin levels have exactly nothing to do with sexual reproduction. A sexually reproducing species categorising itself as having members who develop the capability to perform one of two roles in sexual reproduction, is the exact opposite of arbitrary.

Noses, hand sizes, gender identities, all perfectly arbitrary.

Disorders of sexual development are not a third sex. The existence of people with these disorders is not proof some humans are sexless or a third sex. Infertile people are not a third sex. Child free people are not a third sex. There is no other role in sexual reproduction anyone can take. It is two ingredients to make a baby, not three or four or twenty.

Let’s look at cells. Liver cells for fun. Liver cells can be normal liver cells or they could be cancer. Does this mean liver cancer is not a distinct disease and that the cancerous cells are another way for livers to be?

If no, why is the same not true of only DSDs? Why do other disorders not create a demand for the elimination of fact? Why is it always DSDs as a third sex and never diabetes or schizophrenia being pushed as ackshually just a differentiation in pancreas or brain?

What about the definition of sex is so wildly challenging to qt? Is it just that these facts can’t fit the ideology, or is the lack of understanding of where babies come from a legitimate failure in modern education?

Can you describe what you think a non-arbitrary definition would be if reproductive potential role is not what defines the sex of a sexually reproducing animal?

Also please define what male and masculine mean to you if adult human male is not any sort of definition. If we could understand what you think sex is, where babies come from, and what you believe a man and a woman are, it will be easier to follow along with your leaps in reasoning.

[–]loveSloaneDebate King 11 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Are you serious?

[–]SilverSlippers 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

People with different blood types don't function differently. People with blood type O don't have greater muscle mass than people with blood type A.

Sperm and eggs are required for making a new human. There are no speggs. Two sperm or two eggs cannot make a new human. Sometimes there are people who can't produce gametes. Intersex variations are disorders in the sense that their bodies don't function as they should. That doesn't mean they can't live long happy lives with minimal impact, just as people with heart defects or extra fingers can. Why does having a birth defect of your genitals somehow make you a new kind of human? Are people with an extra finger a new species? Why do we treat congenial defects of the reproductive system differently than any other kind of medical issue? There are people who are born with only 3 heart chambers, does that make them half lizard? There are people born with a small tail, are they more primitive that people who aren't? Occasionally a human will be born with a small gill slit, are they part fish? The answer to all of these is obviously no, they are human. Just as women with enlarged clitoris (which looks like a penis, but isn't one) are still women. Men with excessive breast tissue are still men. The vast majority of intersex people have repeatedly stated that they don't like being part of the gender debate and that they don't like being called a 'third sex' or something else othering.

Saying 'male" and "female" is so much simpler than "people whose bodies were developed around the potential to produce eggs".

[–]emptiedriver 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why isn't sex determined by genes, hair color, height, blood type, or anything else only? Why specifically gametes, or reproductive capability?

Hair color is determined by hair color. Blood type by blood type. Reproductive capacity by reproductive capacity... It's just the thing you're talking about. If you want to talk about people according to their hair color, feel free. Talking about people's sex means talking about which reproductive system their body has, which can affect a lot of other parts of life beyond having kids. You don't have to be concerned about it if you don't want to be, but that is the category the word defines.

Even if we say sex is determined by gametes, or reproductive capability, we can not check people's gametes, sex organs and genes by observing them, especially when they are clothed. That can only be done in the lab. It would be pointless for sex to be determined by gametes, genes, and sex organs, when people wear clothes and we can not observe what's underneath the clothes, and even if we could, if they surgically removed their sex organs, we'd have to observe their genes which can not be done by the eyes.

If a tree falls in the forest... If I can't see your sex, I won't know what it is, but it still exists. I mean, to go back to your other examples, if I don't know your blood type, it is still the same as it is. Sex is something that has a lot of secondary characteristics, so you generally know what someone's sex is without looking beneath their clothing, and when it comes to erotic attraction, most people have a stronger orientation toward one or the other. But, some people are equally attracted or just don't have very strong libidos - that's fine, but not something to assume is true of everyone. For many, the sex of a partner matters.

More importantly, everyone knows what sex their own body is, what sex their children are, and generally speaking the sex of those close to them, and it affects more than just having babies although of course that is an inescapable aspect.

[–]peakingatthemomentTranssexual (natal male), HSTS 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why should sex be determined by gametes, or reproductive capability?

Because that is what sex means?! There are other ways to describe people other than sex if you’d like to describe something else about a person.

It seems we don't need male or female. We can simply say "people who produce sperm" and "people who carry eggs". Why use male and female when we can just use "sperm producers" and "egg carriers"?

Male and female are easier to say.

It would be pointless for sex to be determined by gametes, genes, and sex organs, when people wear clothes and we can not observe what's underneath the clothes, and even if we could, if they surgically removed their sex organs, we'd have to observe their genes which can not be done by the eyes.

For most people, it’s really easy to observe what their sex is, so even if it’s not perfect, it’s works well. It’s possible, occasionally, to look and sound enough like the other sex to be able to be perceived that way by other people, but it’s not the same as being the other sex. We don’t need the definition of sex to change.

[–]adungitit 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why isn't sex determined by genes, hair color, height, blood type, or anything else only? Why specifically gametes, or reproductive capability?

I dunno, why is Earth defined as the planet we live on? Why can't Jupiter be Earth? Or Pluto? Why can't this keyboard I'm typing on be Earth?

Intersex are variations, and not disorders

Uh, no, they're developmental disorders. Some random person's wishful thinking that goes contrary to reality isn't a legit argument.

we can not check people's gametes, sex organs and genes by observing them

Sooo, how do you think you can recognise a human being if you can't view their DNA?

[–]Juniperius 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why can't you call me a blonde even though I have dark hair? Why are you reducing me to my hair color?

People look around at the world, which is big and confusing and has lots of things in it. In order to make sense of it we start putting things into categories. First we notice that some people have dark hair and some people have light hair. Then we decide that sometimes, it's worth mentioning which of those categories a person belongs to, so we invent words for them. In English (and French), we say blonde and brunette. Doesn't matter. Could have been yellowhead and blackhead. Could have been flip and flop. Also doesn't matter that some people are in between, or have other colors. Also doesn't matter that people's hair goes gray or white later in life. Also doesn't necessarily say anything about those people's personalities, skills, or inherent worth. We found those words useful, and it's just stupid to claim that someone who's clearly blonde and always has been should be in the brunette category for reasons of their personality, nose size, or metaphysical soul. Hell, maybe someday we'll stop finding those words useful, and they'll fade away. But as long as we keep using them, they are what they are.

Now another set of categories we noticed in the world and decided to make words for is female and male, woman and man, the ones out of whom other humans sometimes fall and the ones to whom that will never ever happen. These are much tighter categories- hardly anyone between or outside them, compared to the hair color words. And they have more difference between them- not only the primary difference of whether or not a baby might come out of you, but you can just about always guess which category someone is in without looking at their genitals or other reproductive organs, unlike hair color, where you could probably guess a lot more than chance, but not nearly every single person.

These categories are salient and universal enough that we attached all sorts of mythology to them, and we're still sorting out which bits are real and which bits are made up. But we noticed first that there were these types of people, and then we made up words to describe our observations, so saying, "well, why can't we describe them the other way around? Or why can't we describe them based on different characteristics?" Is like saying, well, why can't some up be down? Or why do you talk about up and down when north and south also exist? We made up different words for different purposes, that's all.