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[–]OrangeFirefly 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Such a harrowing video. I wish politicians would see it before parroting the 'transwomen are women' line.

Who is a woman: Jennifer or her ex-husband?

[–]our_team_is_winning 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

It just gets worse as you listen. When he started watching porn (snuff films?) of unconscious women, that sent me out of the room for a while.

We need a movement Never More the Gaslighting! If a TiM enters your life, oust him immediately.

[–]Immortallogic 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

IMMEDIATELY. Women need to stop believing they need to stick around to appease narcissists and gaslighters.

Women and girls: stop being so empathetic, listen to your inner voice, stop being nice. It might save your life.

[–]jet199 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Done

[–]CastleHoward 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The snuff film description was so heartbreaking. I've been thinking of that woman all day. Does it mean anything if you, me and Jennifer care about what happened to that woman? I think it might mean something. No matter how small.

[–]our_team_is_winning 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sadly there are not enough Interpol, FBI, etc. in the world to track down all the horror like that snuff film that was mentioned. And even if they caught those responsible, the victim's suffering and death is not undone.

This is another thing that separates women from TiM. I don't know if it's socialized or it's maternal instinct tbh, but women will feel pained about another person or animal's suffering. That is absent in TiM, or as they call themselves "REAL women." Then of course they use that against us, trying to get us to feel their imagined pain at not being women, ever.

And ANYONE who depicts female suffering for men's sexual pleasure on film or even in writing -- "sick" and "you, OUT of the gene pool" doesn't even begin to describe it.

[–]Apricot_Ibex 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There seems to be a huge overlap between AGP and paraphilias like this, porn addiction, and clinical narcissism and abusive behavior. Even for men who are not AGP or TIMs, the porn/fetish addicted narcissistic abuser profile is prevalent.

With TIMs who are already partnered with women, many tend to follow that pattern where they wait until their partner is pregnant or has just given birth and then suddenly announce they’re trans, out of nowhere. Knowing narcissists, that’s probably because they resent all the attention their pregnant partner and the new baby are now getting and want everything focused back on them...and they also want to trap their partner. If they can throw the family into turmoil by being trans, they can demand validation from the exhausted mother of their child. Also, they feel free to unleash their hidden fetishes now that she is “trapped.”

My friend’s physically and emotionally abusive ex contacted her on Facebook years later, sent her a picture of himself in makeup and a wig, and announced he was trans now, and didn’t she think he just looked amazing? He mentioned offhandedly that he was married now and that his wife had JUST given birth but was leaving him and was totally unsupportive, and wasn’t that just awful? And he somehow needed to message a woman he had once beaten to a pulp, someone who ran away from him and avoided him for years, to tell her all this and get her validation! Total psychopathic behavior.

In Jennifer’s horrible experience in the video, her partner started the gaslighting and the “transbian” porn conditioning very early in the relationship, which seems a little more unusual, but the key elements are narcissism, porn addiction, and emotional and sexual abuse, and then often other forms of physical abuse.

Jennifer immediately talks about how charming, charismatic, and interesting her ex was in the beginning. Of course most people are quite smitten when they click with someone, but we hear this about narcissists, and a lot of cluster B personality types, time and again. I am bracing myself for hearing the rest of this poor woman’s ordeal at the hands of this sociopathic freak.

These TRA handmaidens are no better than any other enablers of sexual and domestic abusers, gaslighting other women to accept male abuse like they’re in a cult.

[–]purrfect 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

"Brave and stunning!" "The most oppressed in the entire world!" "Valid! Pronouns! TWAW!" The day they (politicians, the left, libfems,...) admit the truth... Nah, they can't. We all know they can't, because then they would have to cancel themselves into complete oblivion and hang their heads in shame. They'd have to admit, how cheap they sold women. They'd have to admit women and children are a tools for them to be used.

All the happiness and health to Jennifer. What a brave woman!

[–]CastleHoward 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The next time I hear or see the word "valid" I'm going make a point of telling that person that I think they are irritating and I wish they would stop using that word.

[–]emptiedriver 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This really is worth watching all the way through. At some point I was thinking, funny thing is, this kind of sounds like it could be any unhappy marriage, isn't it awful how our society so often allows women to get stuck in these kinds of situations - but then she did address this, and talk about how it's more the support and network now available to AGP men who can often be the oppressors in marriages like that, or even how men in abusive positions now have access to a "get-out-of-jail-free-card" by making themselves the victim or oppressed or brave & stunning one.. This is not about people with body dysphoria. It's about men with an extreme focus on objectifying women...

[–]MarkJefferson[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is a good way of trapping someone. Whisking them off into another country and culture where they have no friends and family(but one where you do) and making sure that they never go anywhere you don't know about, or meet anyone new without you being present. Basically you cut off their social support network or any possibility of gaining one, so then they'll lose all sense of perspective over the years and forget how it's like to have a normal life. They will be a lot less likely to recognize abuse and want to leave you. Thank goodness for that Irish woman who visited her at their place, saw something seriously wrong with the whole scene and told her that, and later gave her options to get away from him. She really needed someone to come along and pop the bubble of isolation and unreality built around her by the husband.

[–]oofreesouloo 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Brave woman! <3

[–]SaidOverRed 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think at this point we can say "it's" fetishes. I don't often bring up 'meh black card' and stuff, but one gives up his man card when he wants to chop his dick/balls off. It's obvious, self-referential line in the sand.