Below is a link to a video made by Trent Horn, a Catholic apologist and debat-er if that's a word. I don't know that I love his content but I've not seen that much of it. As his focus is Catholicism I can imagine he is very few people here's cup of tea. But here he is talking about Matt Walsh's appearance on Dr. Phil's show with some trans activists, and he sticks to just talking about how to make good arguments and being prepared when you go into these situations.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RVSH3XFqsr0
The advantage of this approach is that it avoids the traps and pitfalls in all the various complications they bring up, and gets right down to a function a body is designed towards. Trent describes his definition as teleological. This is a very practical approach to us who only use our own bodies or interact with each other's bodies based on their designs and how well they match the purpose of the design.
Why did my team win a basketball game? Well, it started with the fact that my team had bodies who's design better served the purposes required by the game of basketball. Once we were together we could block shots, pass the ball into the paint and dunk. On "D", we slowed the game down and waited to block or rebound. All of this took advantage of our height advantage over the other team. Thank God it wasn't a limbo contest!
So, I don't want to post his definition because it is worth hearing the context of where Matt would have benefited from having this approach available to him, and also for seeing how he dealt with it. I see something of how he dealt with it in how I do, and while I don't think it is a weakness, it is about context.
I've taken the tact to define woman as adult human female and female as someone whose body is designed towards the reproductive capacity of birthing children. It sidesteps the "what about barren women" or other bad-faith counters from tras. But, I would like to think I stress that what we're dealing with are two competing theories about these terms, or two competing world views. We should go with the one that makes most sense of the world. We use Newton's ideas on gravity in every day things, and only use Einstein's ideas when the need arises which is not every day things for most people. If our definitions of man and woman work in most cases, but tras see flaws in our ideas, they should explain the flaws better. Explaining mundane things differently but not better does validate their ideas. Instead, if their theory should supersede reality then they should be able to say what infertile women are-- that they know we're talking about women is a clear give away that they are not prepared to really debate the matter seriously though. So, I have wanted tras to tell me how to classify the sex of people who have these various issues, but this teleological focus on the definition (which is similar to saying well I know what a car is even if I dont' know if it has a catalytic converter or carb, or if its positraction or any of the other details) relieves us of a lot of BS we don't really care about anyway.
(this is similar to the response to tras who talk about being unable to define what a woman is because not all "cis" women fall under the same definitions such that trans women can be excluded. While that reasoning is BS, the jujitsu counter or wrestling reversal would be to say "that, that right there. How ever you're defining "cis women" in this usage is probably what we mean by woman then.")
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