There is a fairly normal looking guy in his 40s on my street who was an incel till lately

submitted by Mazurro from self.Incels

He was always living alone with his dog, he always was running for busses in the morning, he was really nice to everyone, he was the only person to whom I liked saying "good morning", I understood his struggles.

Lately, he was walking on the street with a foid around his age or younger looking like aged version of Greta Thunberg, she has average in looks, they are looksmatch I'd say and it put smile on my face. He is lately walking not thoughtful and "in his world" but he is walking all the time smiling and I feel good just seeing him.

Atleast he managed long enough to have a shot. He isn't rich, neither he has a car, he is of average or below looks and he was unexperienced in his 40s so he found a fucking diamond in this world of shit. I really like seeing him. He is lifefuel. Especially when he walks with her holding her hand, it's the only sign of affection in this world (only made by them, not anyone else) which I truly like to see.

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[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

fairly normal looking? That right there sounds normie then, and it's not insane then that he gets a girl even if it was rare in his life. If he was also fairly normal looking as a teen he may have gotten girls then too.

[–]Mazurro[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

He lived there as long as my parents did and they always said he lived alone. But by normal looking I refer to the fact he isn't obese or deformed, but yet he was alone entire fucking life. Funny times.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

is he very short, just in shape with a normie face? That could be enough to make him alone. Or just a mentalcel. But well right now he is doing alright with his Greta, so I salute him.

[–]Mazurro[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

He doesn't seem like mental problematic dude, maybe shy, but the way he always greeted me was really genuine that even I, random dude liked it.

He is average height, average build and average face. But inexperienced in his 40s which make it death sentence.

Nowadays it's average looks which make an incel, so I don't look on it through my black glasses and I want to believe he is happy now.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

The studies show 30% of men are incels, that must not be him as by defintion he isn't an incel if he is banging Greta. Studies also show normies outside of that 30% do have sex but very rarely, going many years without it. So he must not be chad of course but is in that normie level of the bell curve. You say he has lived alone and is in his 40s but of course you don't know his exact sex life that he has had, he may have had a little bit of sex thru the years. You can't say unless you have watched his every movement for his 40 plus years. Anyways, like I said I salute him, but this isn't total life fuel to me it's just a normie getting his rare sex, which does happen. Likely Greta soon leaves him for a chance with a Chad. But still at least he got to enjoy his Greta for however long he could.

[–]Vortex 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

30% didn't have sex for last year. It doesn't mean that they are virgins or can't have romantic relationships. These questions should be more strict, like "Are you virgin?".

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

no they asked if they are virgins and have they had sex in the last year, of course they can't say what the future will so maybe they will have sex in the future. Also men often lie so it's likely even higher. Women lying in the other direction of course, no women ever stay virgins.

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You are probably right though, but I want to believe it, eh. It's always over.

[–]yabbit 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well once they've had their hoe phase they need to settle down with some fucker I suppose. But Jesus in his 40s at that point its not even worth it.

[–]Vortex 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

foid around his age or younger looking like aged version of Greta Thunberg

40 yo

What a gift. I think she was ready to settle down.

[–]Mazurro[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

She could settle for some betabuxx, but this guy isn't rich, neither statusmaxxed. I mean, I know for certain that it isn't the "settlement" shit - she looks as a bit ausitic (as well as Greta lol) and seems like a traditionalist foid.

[–]Vortex 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

If she didn't settle for rich guy it means that rich guys got much more attractive girls.

[–]Mazurro[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Probably right, but I want to believe in that to be sane tbh.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

can you really do that, I mean take the blue pill because otherwise blackpill is depressing? Hard to go back once you know the truth.

[–]Mazurro[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I can't, but it's not taking the bluepill. Average men suffer from loneliness as well nowadays, especially imagine being completely alone in your 40s, it's beyond fucking truecel level. It's just an outlier, which really is nice to watch.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

True I guess this isn't so much about the black pill but whatever pill it is that says a normie can and does sometimes get sex but it's rare. When you described him as normal looking and average I just started picturing him as a normie but of course your views on his looks might be different from mine. I use the eye test to tell when one is an incel, they'd be short, or have a small frame, or an ugly face, or a combo of all 3. And also is his Greta a landwhale? That is usually all a normie can get, which is better than nothing I suppose. I think the age doesn't matter, women actually often like older men, if he is good looking enough that is.

[–]Mazurro[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

They both are like 5/10

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I guess it's impressive a normie got a 5/10

I'm not going nuts celebrating but I am happy for him.

[–]greybeard 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lifefuel. I also bet on it getting easier when I age, maybe making it just enough so I make the cut. Let's wait and see