I have literally never met a real lesbian who ID'd as such. Now, I'm quite young, 16, but I've met multiple bi and pan girls and multiple trans boys at school yet not even one rogue lesbian. Last year I had this friend, let's call her Jill, who told everyone she's a lesbian and dated multiple girls. Then dated a boy, said she was bi. Dated another boy. And now she's calling herself straight again. It honestly felt crushing, I get that at this age everyone is throwing around the wrong labels but come on. Has anyone else experienced this? Are lesbians disappearing or just too scared to come out?
[–]florasis 39 insightful - 1 fun39 insightful - 0 fun40 insightful - 0 fun40 insightful - 1 fun - (4 children)
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun - (3 children)
[–]florasis 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun - (1 child)
[–]sunzzy 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - (0 children)
[–]oofreesouloo 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun - (0 children)
[–]votkriscan 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun - (0 children)
[–][deleted] 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun - (1 child)
[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun - (0 children)
[–]Vernalmuffins 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun - (0 children)
[–]WanderingElephant 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun - (4 children)
[–]yousaythosethings 11 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 4 fun - (2 children)
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun - (0 children)
[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun - (0 children)
[–]al-Amira 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun - (1 child)
[–]oofreesouloo 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun - (0 children)
[–]carrotcake 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun - (0 children)
[–][deleted] (2 children)
[deleted]
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun - (1 child)
[–]Jinera 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun - (0 children)
[–]spirette 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun - (1 child)
[–]RedditHatesLesbians[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun - (0 children)
[–]sallyseton 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun - (0 children)
[–]sunzzy 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun - (0 children)
[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - (0 children)
[–]Astrid2448 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun - (0 children)