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[–][deleted] 20 insightful - 4 fun20 insightful - 3 fun21 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Here’s the deal, it didn’t go that bad because you got a second date. Just try to relax and enjoy yourself.

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 11 fun9 insightful - 10 fun10 insightful - 11 fun -  (3 children)

Ass-grab

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 7 fun3 insightful - 6 fun4 insightful - 7 fun -  (2 children)

Well if you start with the ass grab and the date continues you’re good to go! Lol

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 7 fun4 insightful - 6 fun5 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

I could get away with it. I was thinking just ass-grab when the opportunity, or ass, presents itself, not necessarily at the beginning. Maybe at the end because it’s a rear. Lol. Oh man. What a dad joke

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 4 fun2 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Well she could always play it off like a “good game” ass slap if shit goes left

[–]Anniesworld 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not super experienced but maybe do something active that you feel comfortable doing with her on the second date. Try not to make kissing a goal but more like the cherry on top of a nice date. It will build up your confidence. Try holding her hand or putting your arm around her to gauge how comfortable she is with touch. If she leans into you she's is probably comfortable with you. Try a small kiss where you feel like she is most comfortable, give her room enough to back away if she is not into it. Come in enough to make it clear your trying for a kiss but don't go all the way. If she turns you down it's ok, if may happen later or not at all and it's all good cuz then you know if your compatible, try redirecting the conversation to the activity your doing. Enjoy yourself it's not all about doing things perfect, you're exploring each other to see if your attraction for each other is reciprocated and if you are compatible.

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's hard to help with so few details. Was it your first time meeting this girl or did you know her from somewhere else before the date? If you met online and it was your first time being together in person, a little awkwardness is normal. and you have a 2nd date so it evidently wasn't too bad. Did the whole date have awkward moments throughout or just the beginning/ending?

[–]devonSwan[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

it was the first time meeting her and we met online. It was mostly awkward during the beginning and end, during the conversation was pretty good

[–]spirette 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

How about kissing her? Personally if I don't want to kiss a woman by the second date then to me it means there is no chemistry. Not gonna work. Obviously if she doesn't reciprocate, then you don't force it (goes without saying). All my dates have only ever been online dates btw.