How do you tell? Obviously the advice here is "just ask" but this is a friend who I also work with (we met before we worked together) so if I'm rejected not only could I lose a friend but we'd also bump into each other at work, even though our timetables don't clash that often.
I keep getting pretty mixed signals. She laughs at all my jokes, even unfunny ones, and even the things I say which could only be kind of interpreted as funny if you squint real hard. We text most days but while she rarely texts first she replies immediately and tries to keep the conversation going past whatever excuse I made to text lmao. I also just get a vibe from her, but maybe it's wishful thinking? She's mentioned an ex boyfriend once when I was trying to do research but I feel like she might be bi, again just the energy I'm getting. How do I suss it out subtly? Sorry that I sound like such a teenager, I'm just really into her and not out to any of my gal pals irl so we can't really discuss it.
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