I can't wait until our new site is up. The wait is torture! 😩😩😩

submitted by Gigababejfl from self.TruFemcels

Our discord is always active and the private femcel section is totally different from the public rooms with the moids. I totally love it for that. We have femcels texting thoughts any hour of the day- however the experience is so different from the sub. I miss our subs. When you post online you don't need to have an instant reaction and everyone gets a chance to see it when ready.

The writings, the reflections, the fact that the content sticks and people are still seeing it days later. You can also step away for work or school or however you cope during the day. I miss our online home.

The developer is working through an issue he found and said it will be a few more days so I'm sitting on my hands.

But I swear to God. From our memes to our observations to a good cry to the sky, I can't wait til we are back online. I'm wondering what are some things you'd love to see on there. I know for one I can't wait to drag the threads Reddit will often take down or moids will shout you down in for based and pinkpilled commentary 😩 #whogoncheckusboo!!

One feature I'm working on is a confessions page for anon posting. Femcel fuckery is the best fuckery! 😩😩😩

I miss my femcel lambs and the women who support this group.

F

I hope you're all doing okay..

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[–]Cookies_n_Cream33 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I can’t wait for the new site. Finding a community of people who really understand femcel struggles is not easy. Fuck Reddit for taking that away.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

Wait, there is going to be a femcel site? Where can I find it?

[–]Gigababejfl[S] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

Wait. You didn't know?

We are going live in a few days, sis

TruFemcels pioneered female dominated talk back on reddit. TruFemcels made these basics stop lying about their emotions on the internet. Yes, there is a site in the makings. It's Reddit..just one where women aren't hated and get to speak

Can't wait to see you there. Please join our discord in the meantime

[–]vcardthrow1 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

So is this going to be on actual reddit or elsewhere?

[–]Gigababejfl[S] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This is going to be its own site, forums set up similarly so that all based and pinkpilled communities can come speak freely if they want. Trufemcels will be based there.

[–]noseburp 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

TruFemcels pioneered female dominated talk back on reddit

Yeah & look what happened to reddit lol

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Femcels have nothing to do with what goes on Reddit. They made it clear we are not welcome.

[–]Gigababejfl[S] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

?

[–]blogging7890 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Hey, what's the name of the website and is there any way to access all of the old femcel posts?

[–]Gigababejfl[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sorry I never saw this. It's https://ThePinkPill.co

Not all of them but we are trying to get them back.

[–]Node 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (17 children)

While I'm apparently characterized as a "moid" by femcels, having your own secret hideout is your right. Hope things work out for you guys.

Also wouldn't be opposed to you staying here and exchanging thoughts and opinions with non-femcels. Either way, good luck!

[–]Gigababejfl[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (16 children)

Lol .. you seem a little bit surprised by us. Not In a bad way.

We are going to our own site but this will be here. TruFemcels forbade male talk back for at least 1.5 years. We let men engage, in our rules, on r/AskTruFemcels

It became a community, not too far from these here says on SaidIt.

Trufemcels would have landed here if it wasnt an alt right, misogynistic Hotspot. We come to cope, we don't need the extra traumatic tax of yet another male driven, extremist website. I promise u if the front page was different, we wouldn't even bother and try to move.

Who knows. You might like our movement. You decide.

[–]Intuit 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

There's definitely value in having spaces of just people who share the same values and experiences. Not everything needs to be a free-for-all.

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    [–]Gigababejfl[S] 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    Our sub was women only. Idgaf, I don't want to be faced with bullshit on the front page every day. Not everyone thrives in seeing hateful content every day.

    Life is hard enough without being forced to muck through shit just to talk to other women who relate on these unique experiences. All people do is shout femcels down. Anyway I didn't call for changing this site. I said I can't wait until our site is up so we can congregate there.

    Lmao go ahead and be disappointed. I don't even know you

    [–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Its an old shill of obamacare

    [–][deleted] 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    We just want a space where men don't come in and try to harass us. This site seems like an unsafe place for us to discuss our issues.

    [–]Airbus320 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    😮

    [–]Node 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

    Yes, 'Femcel' is a concept that's new and interesting to me. Kind of extremist and misandristic in that reply I received from one. Probably more of an edge case though. Generally though, as in your case, kind of nice to have around.

    an alt right, misogynistic Hotspot

    I dunno. The "alt right" thing is odd, and seen as a sort of 'wanna be' characterization by people actually on the right. Not to dwell on the who's and why's of that, but misogyny isn't a value found on the actual right.

    As for the front page, it's pretty mild in my experience. I kind of like the mix of males and females, 'commies' and 'nazis', and political and non-political content. Plus the no downvoting forces you to see comments and opinions you might rather not. lol

    I certainly have my own opinions about how things should be, but it's good to be exposed to disagreement when there's willingness to debate.

    You might like our movement.

    Honestly don't know exactly what it's about, but I get the sense that it's not really the desired state of affairs for those in it. I suppose that could be applied to the incels too, but their name seems to say what that's all about.

    [–]Gigababejfl[S] 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

    Plus the no downvoting forces you to see comments and opinions you might rather not. lol

    We aren't interested. That's why men were banned. Men have a terrible habit of thinking all of our life experiences are up for debate. They also tend to see life from a male centric POV which is markedly different than our own and therefore useless. We opened a sister sub that allowed men under specific rules and it was pretty active. There, women who want outside opinions and male interaction can opt in by going to the sister sub and get those insights you mentioned. Not forced.

    By virtue of being female on the internet we are already forced to endure every sexist male hot take known to man. Sometimes we need a break. That sub was truly an escape. We miss it and will be glad to have something like it back.

    As for SaidIt, I'm sure at least some of us will probably stick around to engage

    [–]Node 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

    Men have a terrible habit of thinking all of our life experiences are up for debate.

    I suppose I'm doing it right now... But technically, existence itself is up for debate. That's just how it works for animal species on this planet. Same goes for plant species. There's competition for surface space, resources, and the ability to even exist.

    They also tend to see life from a male centric POV which is markedly different than our own and therefore useless.

    I can see how you might now be inclined to discount my opinion, which I find pretty interesting. Would you say the same should apply to females? Are the ideas, opinions, and perspectives of females useless? You do appear to be validating the perspective of that misogynistic male subset (probably incels) who claim women are more like a utility.

    Sometimes we need a break.

    At least here, one option is to make a sub private, so entry requires whitelisting. Adding that roadblock would filter out a percentage of the women you'd want, though. An option to just keep a post off the front page might be a nice compromise. However, that may be too much of a male centric idea?

    What kind of response do you get from women who aren't femcels? Do you identify with them?

    [–]Doll 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

    Imagine making an ontological analogy completely irrelevant to the topic to justify debating opinions with people in a space that is not designed for debate. This is not a personal matter.

    A constraint is not a restraint, and while you are free under your given biology to assert and express your ideas and opinions into a space not made for that purpose, you will deal with the consequences of having your content removed for it's lack of utility in so far as it does not optimize the discussion, nor does it optimize the well-being of participants. The freedom of speech argument is completely dubious insofar as freedom of speech does not entail lack of consequences or inaction to what is said; once you have said it you have already exercised your right to express, but if you are disallowed from participating you are not having your freedom of speech "removed" or "restricted" on the basis of you being male or a 'female with opposing opinions', but instead because these topics, opinions, and "ideas" are have no relevancy to the sub or website on the basis of it's intended purpose.

    Just like 'boy scouts' and 'girl scouts' are not inherently restrictive nor misandric/misogynistic - nor speak to the overall utility of the individual or the merit they can supply if they participated. Utility to the sub is gauged by optimization of the content; anything that does not optimize damages the quality of discussion and content, and distresses the members and user distress, and what determines it, is irrelevant to whatever personal opinions of the opposing people are clearly making to encourage debate, it is considered counterproductive, not counterintuitive as you are attempting to make it seem.

    [–][deleted] 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    So many people seem to be getting their Ph D in femcelism. I honestly don't see what's so fascinating about women who struggle with finding love.

    [–]Hotpink 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    they've never seen a woman who struggles with dating (because by definition ugly women don't exist) in real life, so either they are fascinated with something impossible, or want to give as advice because obviously we must be doing something really stupid that could be fixed easily.

    [–]Node 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

    a space that is not designed for debate.

    a space not made for that purpose

    These claims are both unsupported and without merit. The entire point of creating the ability to reply to typed expressions of thoughts and opinions on a 'page' on the internet is to extend, support, or rebut said thoughts and opinions.

    [–]Doll 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    Not only are the "sources" for my claims on this very thread and asserted by the creator herself (and myself - a mod); but what you find meaningful (i.e. having merit) is irrelevant to what is actually the case, which is the "sub" not being intended for debate purposes that diminish the quality of the website and distract from it's goal.

    You appear lost, my friend. Your bizarre Dunning–Krugerian display is not even relevant to the discussion itself, because not only did you not apprehend or analyze my post, because if you did you would would've known I already covered this very comment in detail, but claiming that an owned webpage must accommodate and support content irrelevant to the sites intended purpose at the expense of quality and optimization for it's members is not only insane, but servers as an active demonstration as to why the site will operate as it will.

    [–]Node 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    You prefer resolution in real life, and we're heading in that direction. Enjoy.

    [–]spinell 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    There have been talks about the front page seemed like even magnora isnt really happy with it? Maybe you can voice your concerns in rhe saiditsub? Just a suggestion. I hope you stick around we need women present and talking.

    [–]armillaria 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

    I really wish I was more active on the sub when it was a thing instead of just lurking, the decent part of the femcel discord sounds like exactly what I'm looking for. The public channels get pretty toxic. The only place I can truly feel comfortable is a female-only space with likeminded women, hopefully this community isn't forced to keep website hopping

    [–]Gigababejfl[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

    Let's chat, sis. I get why some of us lurk. When u join the discord, reference this thread. Until we go live, the discord is an amazing holding ground.

    [–]manaphie 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

    where can we find the discord link?

    [–]Gigababejfl[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

    The first post on this sub announcing the ban has it posted 2x. Remember you will have to get verified to get to the trufemcels side which is not visible to the public. The side that is visible allows men so as you know, the vibe is very different. Cool but different

    [–]manaphie 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    it says the invite is invalid :(

    [–]Gigababejfl[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    https://discord.gg/Yg4Pzr2s

    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    I hope it's soon. The moids here are even more disgusting and perverted than the ones on reddit!

    [–]Gigababejfl[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    F!

    I know you deleted your account but if you do check on this, we're at www.ThePinkPill.co

    Join the list and when we go live, you'll get an notification

    [–]HornyToad 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    Gigababe how much are you paying for this??

    [–]Gigababejfl[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    I never saw this- sorry I didn't see this sooner. We're a few hundred bucks in now! But that's what happens when you don't know how to code and you've gotta find the people that do wails