deleted comments on a post show how the actuallesbians reddit mods are mostly men in dresses & comments from real lesbians with lady parts who have grievances are removed, because their complaints go against the narrative that lesbians must be open to dating someone with a lady-penis

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TLDR: A transbian makes a long-winded post about how it hurts his feelings when actual lesbians say that they find penises disgusting.

To my knowledge, there is no lesbian space on reddit that hasn't been infiltrated by the transbians. The entitlement of these men in dresses with erections is off the fucking charts.

But what i find interesting about this thread are the comments that have been removed. It clearly shows that the mod is trying to shape a narrative. Actual lesbians wrote heartfelt replies saying that they don't like penises because they've been raped by men. That seems like a valid response to me. But those comments were removed. Why? Why would the mod think that these women's opinions shouldn't be included in the conversation? They are women who have past trauma from being raped. Their stories need to be heard, but the fucking troon mod deleted their comments.

Isn't the hip thing nowadays to validate everyone's "lived experience"? So what about the lived experience of these lesbians who have been sexually assaulted by men? Why do the troon mods feel that these women need to be silenced?

It reminds me of the female athletes who complained about Liar Thomas swinging his dick around in the locker room. They were told to be quiet & deal with it. I guess nothing is more important than protecting Lia's feelings. The discomfort of the women in the locker room is of no concern apparently.

The deleted comments are in the reddish color. I'm new here so I'm getting familiar with the layout. I've cut and pasted the reveddit link here: https://www.reveddit.com/v/actuallesbians/comments/wy7y0k/hey_ive_got_something_i_wanna_talk_about/?ps_after=1661529405

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[–][deleted] 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

They are women who have past trauma from being raped.

Cock trauma "lesbians." I wonder if there are any lesbian lesbians there, women who just naturally prefer women and aren't just afraid of penises. Looks like actual actual lesbians are not welcome. Fucking Reddit. They nuked some decent comments.

From a comment in the thread:

The worst part is that the brain can’t tell the difference between euphoria and sexual pleasure, so whenever I get euphoria, I also get an erection, and it absolutely ruins it.

That's telling. I was wondering what fucking euphoria these weirdos are feeling all the time. Euphoria is the code word for getting their rocks off playing gender pretend.

And a good one:

Trans women aren't allowed to come into lesbian spaces and tone police them for being homosexual. Sounds like male entitlement to me.

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Nope. Would you go into a sub for gay men and tell them not to express their feelings towards vaginas? I sure as hell wouldn't. Nor would I take it personally, because they're gay. Most of them wouldn't like my genitalia, and it has nothing to do with me.

I'm starting to see the TERFs point of view about these things more and more

Love seeing the tide turn.

[–]FourteenDigitz 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm starting to see the TERFs point of view about these things more and more

Imagine creating a stupid fake label and having it backfire so horribly that it starts to become a rallying cry against you

[–]LyingSpirit472 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Cock trauma "lesbians." I wonder if there are any lesbian lesbians there, women who just naturally prefer women and aren't just afraid of penises. Looks like actual actual lesbians are not welcome.

They were the first to go because they made the cheat code incels feel sad by not giving them the sex they earned by putting a pretty spinny dress on...or more likely, putting 'he/they' in their bio and doing nothing else.

The cock trauma lesbians were the only ones who were begrudgingly allowed because the cheat code incels weren't emboldened enough yet to say that rape didn't matter to them, they want to cash in their sex points, so lie back and think of all the woke points you'll get for letting them fuck you.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

The thing with me is i dislike male pheromones and the way dick smell. But a trans woman who is on hormones will smell like a woman

Ah yes the humans who can smell your gender identity.

[–]jacques1102 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

I saw a comment that stated they're disgusted by male penis but like girl dick.WTF does that even mean?

[–]jet199 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

They are a troon living in a reddit fantasy land.

[–]LyingSpirit472 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Translation,"I would entertain possibly dating you if not for, whoops, I'm in a relationship and am not in the area and by an astonishing coincidence I will never have to put up or shut up, so please don't ruin my life."

(Note: This never works.)

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Pretty sure it means the person is throwing up all possible signifiers that they won't participate in wrong think.

[–]FourteenDigitz 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"Pheromones" homie that person maybe just straight up be a furry

[–]Femaleisnthateful 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Ugh. Really did not need to read an entire thread describing what ladydick smells like.

[–]Datachost 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I can't stand the ones that are all "Actually I find people attractive, not bodies". People are their bodies, dipshit. Nobody is out here finding someone's essence sexually attractive, they find their body attractive, their physical form. Now personality plays into that, but it's a whole package that can't just be separated from each other. At best these are people who have never actually had any sexual contact at worst they're bisexuals who have disappeared so far up their own arses they've forgotten that not everyone is bi.

[–]jet199 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

There are a couple of those bisexuals on saidit.

Likely those redditors who find all people attractive are just at the stage of singledom that they are so desperate they'll take anyone.

We need to come up with a gender for that and post it on tumblr.

[–]Datachost 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Likely those redditors who find all people attractive are just at the stage of singledom that they are so desperate they'll take anyone.

Yeah, there's definitely an element of that to it, especially in t4t "transbians". Kind of seems like it'd be easier to just learn how to be happy single rather than being desperate enough to just go for anyone.

[–]RuinedSpiral 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Lived experiences only get validated if they serve the narrative. Detailed a lot of my experiences with predatory transwomen in the punk scene in a comment on r/punk and got downvoted and told off by a “gay transman.”

[–]Datachost 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The problem with any movement that prides itself on breaking down boundaries is it's eventually going to attract a bunch of weirdos who thrive on that and will reach a point where certain boundaries are starting to fall that people aren't comfortable with, but feel unable to speak out because they assume everyone else agrees with it.

Same thing with the current trans movement, putting out the message that it's socially acceptable for you to shame and coerce women into sex is going to attract people whose only chance of sex is that. It's an incel's wet dream

[–]deusex 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lesbians can find trans women attractive bc humans aren’t attracted to genitals, we’re attracted to faces, body shapes, voices, personality, etc. If you think lesbian = vaginas you really have a simple and old concept of sexuallity.

Except it's not even just your genitals on why they wouldn't be attracted to you. It's your clearly male face, body shape, voice, personality and (even self-admittedly) smell:

The thing with me is i dislike male pheromones and the way dick smell. You're right, trans women who are on hormones definitely do smell different and if they have stock hardware that smells different to. As a trans woman on hormones I can confirm we smell different, if at all.

It just wouldn't make sense for a person who is only attracted to all passable, female features to someone who clearly still exhibits more male ones.

All the troons that barely even try to pass on that thread seem to think lesbians' only issue is their ladydick.

[–]FourteenDigitz 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But those comments were removed. Why? Why would the mod think that these women's opinions shouldn't be included in the conversation? They are women who have past trauma from being raped.

Only trains are allowed to trauma-dump. Everyone else can get fucked. The TRAs said so when JKR had the nerve to speak out about her trauma.

[–]RippoffOfLove 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This has sadly been going on for a long time. I really feel for young lesbians that have no idea how much dissent there is because all they see are the comments that the tyrant mods haven't deleted.

[–]Haylstorm 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Genuinely seems horrific. Imagine trying to find out your identity and not feeling like a lesbian because you don't like dick? Even though most normal people have that as expected for lesbian. If you like dick you aren't lesbian lol.

[–]alladd 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

lol imagine you go through all the trouble of mutilating and sterilizing yourself and taking drugs so you look like a soft floppy androgyne and you still can't meet women. and now not only are you weird and offputting, your body is unattractive to anyone without mental problems. and your only refuge is complaining to other eunuchs on the internet.

[–]alladd 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Do you even hear yourself? You say you're just "not attracted to them" then proceed to make the most defensive statements ever. How do you not see that you literally are just hating penises because of your own trauma?

holy shit the maleness in this subreddit is off the charts. dude literally telling a woman what she feels.

[–]IndianaJonesTroons... why did it have to be troons? 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So what you're saying is, men have infiltrated the lesbian community. So you're saying (((men))) are jewish? Based. Greetings fellow women!

[–]Reed_Solomon 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Reddit is essentially run by trannies at this point. I don't know why anyone even still posts there. Such a shame that it has devolved so rapidly.