It is a myth that we live in patriarchal families. In my experience and observations, Asian mothers heavily police the sons and turn a relatively blind eye to the choices of the daughters. There are a lot of excuses about how the son must uphold the family name and date within the same asian origin nationality.

Then you have the bullshit idea of sisterhood that you see among aw whereby they turn a blind eye to all the bs they perpetuate. They behave like asian men owe them loyalty and then react in outrage when we point out their rampant white worship and opportunism.

Asian men are conditioned to conform to a lot of expectations. Therefore, we have less control than we think because we are effectively taught to conform to preferring Asian women. From what I observe in my circles in the U.K., the asian guy will always have a showdown with his mother if he brings home a white girl. If it’s an asian girl bringing home a white guy they turn a blind eye.

Of course white society will find it easy kicking asian men down if at home asian women across generations do half the job for them.

Are we truly free in the family unit when we are being raised ?

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