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[–]SeasideLimbs 33 insightful - 9 fun33 insightful - 8 fun34 insightful - 9 fun -  (1 child)

"i just want to make sure trans women know their bodies are desirable"

If you gotta let them know, it's likely not true.

[–][deleted] 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Always needing to prop up that fragile male ego.

[–]turtleduck23 26 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

"Unless she doesn't want to peg u, in which case more power to her n she can do what she wants bc it's her body" First off, their spelling is horrendous. Second, notice how it's up to the transwoman to decide what he want's because it's his body, but if his girlfriend doesn't want it she is shamed. So men get to decide what's ok during sex and women should not object because you could hurt their feelings, but this is totally not misogynistic.

[–]Ladis_Wascheharuum 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

The implication is that the OP is directed at straight males, since "pegging" is generally used for women with strapons penetrating men.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

A straight woman with a strap on still has a vagina and she can still get pregnant. But TRAs don't want to think about that, because all they care about is sex.

[–]turtleduck23 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

thanks, I learn something new everyday.

[–][deleted] 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It’s always about the dick.

Straight men or transwomen, they just do not get it.

  1. Not all lesbians like penetration. Period. Plus, even if some lesbians enjoy penetration, they/we, don’t want a male connected to it. That is why we are lesbians.

  2. Men do not have the soul or essence of a woman. It is intangible and can’t be gained by wearing a dress or putting on makeup.

  3. They utilize the gender stereotypes of women and somehow think that it equals woman? Not ever.

  4. They were born male and have been socialized in all cultures as men. They have zero experience in the socialization of females. They want to keep male privilege, and yet, wear a dress while doing so.

Unfortunately, it’s working for them.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, other than the fact clitoris feel way more intense than vagina and much better to get. Penetration doesn't mean phallos (and toy isn't equal toa dick). It means fingers, which are also way more effective than a tube for gaining orgasm. No lesbian is attracted to male genitalia. Straight men or transwomen are the same: male who know shit about female anatomy and obsessed with their little sausage.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

don’t want a male connected to it.

Strap-ons are free of unwanted extraneous parts, indeed. They seem to have missed that essential detail. Anyone who is getting pegged is a dude, and men don't peg other men, by definition. That term is as specific and unambiguous as "lesbian."

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Trans women can do what they want with their bodies but everyone else can't.

[–]Rosefield 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Everyone else solely exists for validation

[–]CJLez 19 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

Never mind the insulting message, that colour combination is bad enough!

Though, as bad as 'dicks are the same as strap ons' is, the reverse of 'as a transman I'm better at sex than a cis top because I can choose the size and shape of my dicks' is even more eye-roll inducing.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah. This is so bullshit. Like, you just bought a piece of plastic and pretend it's a dick.Depressing.

[–]ImNOTRobertPaulson 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I hate the smug condescension some trans men have about that. I've heard or seen several tell guys, especially gay guys, that we are just jealous because their dick is bigger. Sorry, Aiden, that ain't it at all. You got to pick your dick BECAUSE IT'S NOT REAL. And you bought into the stereotype that gay guys are size queens. You obviously don't know shit about gay sex if you think dick size is the be-all end-all. I don't give a fuck if your fake dick is an inch long or a foot long. It's still a fake dick and I'm not interested.

[–]ThrowMeAway2879 15 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

"No. No, they aren't. And thank god for that." - Things Lesbians And Gay Men Agree On 101

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I don't like neither. But thinking that a toy is the same as penis and ball, it's beyond irrational.

[–]Rosefield 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Well these are the same people who think a man claiming to be a woman is exactly like a woman.

[–]TovasshiDefinitely a house plant 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't like being penetrated by a strap-on either.

[–]bastetkat 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

No one worships “organic strapons” more than transbians themselves, but for some (very obvious) reason, they aren’t very enthusiastic about dating other transbians and are always complaining about not getting pussy.

[–]Gearbeta 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

TRAs are way more obsessed with strap ons than any lesbian I've ever met.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Really? Can a strap on get an erection? Can a strap on pass semen? Can a strap on get a woman pregnant? No. But also, can a strap on give a lesbian or a straight man what a vagina can give? No. Strap ons are nothing more than props.

[–]Rosefield 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don't want to "deserve" a mentally ill man larping as a woman anyway.

Dating a bloke like this would be a punishment.

[–]ImNOTRobertPaulson 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This shows that some trans people don't know shit about lesbians or homosexuality. Equating sex toys with actual human anatomy is at best deeply naive and misguided, and at worst similar to shaming lesbians into sleeping with trans women. Also, anyone with any actual sexual experience who is being honest knows strap-ons != real dicks.

This also reminds me of the TRA rallying cry that gay guys should have no problem with having sex with a trans man because the vagina is just another hole. Ummm...no it's not, and you suggesting so shows you don't know or care about how lgb people feel. I've tried dating women. Sorry to all the ladies out there, but there is nothing at all appealing to me about a vagina. It is nowhere near the same as being with another guy. In fact, I will find some women very attractive, but the moment I imagine having sex with a woman, the attraction is completely gone. That doesn't change because the woman now identifies as a man.

[–]southpaw 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I really wonder if some of these TRAs have actually had sex.... There's a big difference between a toy and a dick. Also do they not understand how pregnancy happens. A dick can get someone pregnant a toy can't . That's a big turnoff right there.

[–]julesburm1891 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So, the transmen into women will be totally cool with this organic strap-on, right?

[–]ThiccDropkickGay 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Gotta love how they pressure you into sex and if you turn them down it becomes "Oh well you don't deserve me I'm too good anyway"

[–]Palpetinus 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The penis part isn't even the problem to me. The lack of vagina part is the problem for me. The fact that it's a crude meatstick as a bastardization to what a penis should be is a problem for me.

[–]shveya 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Strap ons don't have little squirmy things shoot out of them. x_x