ColonizationThe amount of ass-kissing on AL is not good enough for a transwoman who’s suffering from disapproval of actual lesbians on the sub

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[–]CleverNickName 67 insightful - 5 fun67 insightful - 4 fun68 insightful - 5 fun -  (5 children)

Loved the one comment going "Terfs just downvote in silence, you never hear them actually discuss things"

On reddit. 2 (?) months after the huge banwave targeting gender- and TQ-critical subs. In a sub that goes HARD against reasonable harmless opinions from normal lesbians, and absolutely fucking nuclear against trans-criticism.

Sure, dude, I'll post my opinion about something on your male-dominated hugbox, see how far that'll get me. Why don't you come here, we don't even HAVE downvote buttons.

[–]biggreensunglasses 51 insightful - 19 fun51 insightful - 18 fun52 insightful - 19 fun -  (0 children)

I know it's incredibly petty and I am a grown woman who should know better, but I downvote all those comments and threads.

Such a thrill. Get off my lawn!

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 52 insightful - 6 fun52 insightful - 5 fun53 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

They literally ban anyone who say something they don't like. Hard to discuss things when you get banned lol

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 40 insightful - 5 fun40 insightful - 4 fun41 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

They don't want real lesbians there, as real lesbian will invalidate them by just existing.

[–]LasagnaRossa 26 insightful - 4 fun26 insightful - 3 fun27 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure they're pissed that can't deny us the right to vote in that sub. They wish the ban included the ability to leave an upvote/downvote.

[–]ns_for_work 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

yup, they say that when people who do speak out get their comment removed and banned from AL but not before getting rebuked by the men there. Even very reasonable comments that aren't from gc get removed, its a male circlejerk at this point.

[–]luckystar 60 insightful - 1 fun60 insightful - 0 fun61 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh man I just came here to see if there was any discussion of this. Seriously the entire subreddit is largely dominated by trans people and they upvote memes about trans stuff pretty much daily. Even the slightest "I'm not attracted to male genitalia" will get an insta-ban for being violent transphobia. How much more could they possibly demand? Peak entitlement and self-centeredness

[–]julesburm1891 56 insightful - 7 fun56 insightful - 6 fun57 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

I feel like I’m rejecting the lesbian label, as I’m clearly not allowed to have it.

Good. As a straight man, you aren’t allowed to call yourself a lesbian.

I expected transphobia from the cis hetero community. I didn’t expect it from within the LGBTQ+ community and that’s the most upsetting part.

Getting downvoted isn’t transphobia. Chill out.

I posted this in such an unstable state

You mean the one where, as straight a man, you thought lesbians would be into you if you said you’re a woman? Because that is the most unstable thing I can fathom.

[–]jjdub7TERF (Trans Exterminating Reactionary Fascist) 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mean, I'm allowed to call myself an attack helicopter...

[–]a_blue_bird 45 insightful - 10 fun45 insightful - 9 fun46 insightful - 10 fun -  (7 children)

If you're woman that loves women, you're a lesbian, and no one can tell you otherwise. Do not let TERF's, or other negative people, affect the life you're trying to live.

Just remember, guys. Biologists will never study males when researching female homosexuality. Neuroscientists will never study males when researching female homosexuality. Sexologists will never study males when researching female homosexuality. And so on. This should tell you something. uwu <3 <3

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

Female homosexuality and male ones got similar causes but opposite. More testosterone in womb brain exposure to females and less to males. They got the same testosterone as normal men, and in fact they're regular hetero males.

[–]fuck_reddit 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Uhhh, what?

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

What's not clear?

[–]fuck_reddit 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Are you saying that the trans lesbians are regular hetero males or that biological female lesbians are?

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Trans males attracted to females are just normal hetero males.

[–]fuck_reddit 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh ok yeah I agree.

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Never say never...

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 42 insightful - 9 fun42 insightful - 8 fun43 insightful - 9 fun -  (2 children)

Half of comments are "I am trans and fine being here, everyone loves me here", other half is "damn terfs are hating and stalking you".

Seems this one need not just validation like others, but insane amount of validation with 0% of downvotes for every post. As it seems that even if his posts have 500+ upvotes, but upvotes % is "only" 70%, it is bad and someone hating him.

[–]southpaw 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, I went through his post history bc I was curious. A lot of his post were ,”help what is my label,sexuality,wrong with my hormones, etc.” I am not a big fan of those posts. While I rarely downvote, sometimes if I keep seeing those types of posts I would. A bunch of internet strangers can’t tell you your sexuality and it clogs up my feed. Also, everyone gets downvoted a little bit on reddit- it shouldn’t drive you to suicide. Grow up.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 18 insightful - 7 fun18 insightful - 6 fun19 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Suicide is the only path where you need people approval so much.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 44 insightful - 1 fun44 insightful - 0 fun45 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Silent downvotes from disapproving lesbians in a space that is putatively for lesbians is the greatest hardship they face. That is why these are the same people advocating for there to be no police whatsoever, because the only “violence” they have to fear is words and downvotes (if even), and that can be summarily handled with mob mentality censorship.

[–][deleted] 32 insightful - 4 fun32 insightful - 3 fun33 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

It's interesting that they don't consider the downvotes are from their own community. Hard to tell if it's purposeful or they're just that marshmallow brained from no critical thinking.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

“Marshmallow brained” is an excellent description of the state of mind of a narcissist whose narcissism has been substantially enabled over time. They fully lose their critical thinking skills.

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 28 insightful - 8 fun28 insightful - 7 fun29 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

"I feel like completely rejecting the lesbian label, as clearly I'm not allowed to have it. "

I see that he's starting to catch on.

[–][deleted] 31 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 0 fun32 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

It's the name that they're using that's the problem: 'Actual lesbians' -- this is totally misleading and should be a label for real lesbians only. If 'transbians' want a place with nothing but support, they should start a subreddit called 'Trans lesbians and friends'. This way they can be around people who agree with gender identity theory and can support them. If you're elbowing your way into a subreddit called 'Actual Lesbians' -- with all the political and historical connotations that names carries, you can expect to get a few nasty comments.

Unfortunately, whether cis or trans, you will never be able to get validation from everyone. That's why it's so important to develop an internal locus of control, so that you don't rely on external validation for your sense of self.

[–]LasagnaRossa 34 insightful - 5 fun34 insightful - 4 fun35 insightful - 5 fun -  (5 children)

Random idea: what if we create a sub called actualtransbian and kick away anyone who doesn't agree with us? Let's give them a spoon of their own medicine

[–][deleted] 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is actually a genius idea!!!

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

YES PLEASE hahahah

[–]LeaveAmsgAfterBeep 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Is parody guarded in the TOS? :) who cares lets do it

[–]LasagnaRossa 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm afraid reddit will close it because it would be ban evasion

[–]southpaw 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

There already is a r/actualtransbians. I'm sure you could just keep adding "aaaa"s in trans until you found a combo that wasn't taken

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 23 insightful - 4 fun23 insightful - 3 fun24 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, if you're so dependent on people opinion, your mental health will go downhill pretty fast. And I know enough about mental health. These people live all their lives pretending validation for others, not only they're hurting others with this entitlement and harrassment, they're also hurting themselves by giving everyone so much power over them

[–]RedditHatesLesbiansHomosexual Not Queer 29 insightful - 4 fun29 insightful - 3 fun30 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Boo fucking hoo. Grow up and get out into the real word. Literally do anything but spend all your time online getting offended and upset by meaningless microagressions you imagined in your own head. This is so pathetic.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 34 insightful - 5 fun34 insightful - 4 fun35 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

51% population of world just existing is microagression to them.

[–]blackrainbow 27 insightful - 3 fun27 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Like, 90% of the posts are about trans women, that's not enough for them. I hope more women will peak after this

[–]Rosefield 25 insightful - 5 fun25 insightful - 4 fun26 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

LMAO not even the Al sausage fest is enough for this narc. Fucking hilarious. ZE TERFS ARE ALWAYS HERE!!1 Ze terfs and their transphobic downvotes!!1

It's really funny seeing these sick narc fucks crying about gazillions of terfs stalking them. 😂😂😂

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Despite the opposite being true. Their entire sub is increasingly driven by autogynephile insanity but at a certain point they hit a plateau and this person is freaking out that the narrative isn't changing at a fast enough rate this second.

[–]shveya 18 insightful - 8 fun18 insightful - 7 fun19 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

According to his post history, he's been "out" for less than a week. Why aren't lesbians lining up to suck his girldick uwu yet?

[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 5 fun17 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Instead of just leaving, he has to give a big announcement for everyone to tell him that everything is going to be fine and to plead, “don’t go, please don’t go”.

I heard someone one time call this the “golden flounce”.

Flounce right on out buddy.

[–]soundsituationI myself was once a gay 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Something just occurred to me: the entire trans ideology is predicated on the assumption that one's true identity is innately understood by oneself, and requires no objective/material proof. At the same time, they not only demand external validation of this identity, but many of them, like the OP of this AL thread, have a complete crisis of identity without this external validation. So which is it? Is the truth only knowable to oneself, or does truth require material proof and external consensus? It's such a bizarre and completely contradictory philosophy.

[–]disheveledtomboyGen X Old AF DGAF 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I can't be bothered to go on r/ AL/LA and the bazillion trans spaces on reddit, let alone to stick around and downvote anything. Thank you to those that do, lol. I do find the whinging about d0wNvOtez hilarious though. Since ya wouldn't let those evil terfs have their own lesbian space away from you, why do you get to uwu in peace? Enjoy them downvotes.

[–]dandeliondynasty 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I love how this one woman, while trying to be supportive, discovers "Oh...you're dating a man? And calling yourself a lesbian? Do you think that might be part of the problem [rather than some TERF Terminator stalking you all over Reddit]?"

[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So not only is the OP of the thread NOT a lesbian, but is actually a bisexual male who just can't come to terms with it?

For fucks sake.

[–]Seahorse 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lmao that thread had so many downvotes it was glorious.

This is how pathetic they are now, they're policing down and upvotes.

And guess what? Lesbians still don't want your ugly foul dick, transwomen!

[–]ks00 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm a cis hetero guy and I'm shocked to hear this because I lurk on this sub just to see the positive supportive energy,

How long until this guy transes out and becomes a transbian himself? I give it a month...

[–]GayFish 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Omg I'm now tempted to make a reddit account again just to downvote them.

[–]D3M1G0D 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

She is so full of shit

[–]jjdub7TERF (Trans Exterminating Reactionary Fascist) 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

WeRe nOt a MiLiTaNt oR eXclUSivE grOuP

Love that I'm not the only one who immediately thought "hugbox" is response to this.

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"I feel like completely rejecting the lesbian label, as clearly I'm not allowed to have it."

Its literally not the lesbians' problem that you decided to try to claim a label that obviously does not apply to you. Talk about hurting your own feelings.