Gay men are notorious for putting demographic criteria on their dating profiles, usually (but not exclusively) on the basis of race. Everything from “no fats, no femmes, no Asians” to “whites only” can be found on Grindr profiles

Yeah, I don't want to listen to a woman whine about gay men's hook-up profiles having spaces for information such as your race, your age, your weight, your height, etc. I can barely tolerate other gay men whining about it without wanting to give them a smack in the mouth. The fact is, the material reality of who you are factors into whether or not someone can enthusiastically consent to you. Before Grindr allowed multiple photos, I made sure to mention in my profile that I had a crooked, romanesque nose so guys would fully know what to expect when we met up. I made sure to show my smile so guys could see that my teeth are a bit yellow but ultimately straight, clean, and healthy- I have had way too many guys try and hide that they have dead teeth or gingivitis and then pull some woe is me crap over it because they wouldn't get laid if guys knew in advance.

I can think of at least 3 occasions where I have yelled at men for misrepresenting themselves (one used "myspace angle shots" to make himself look like he weighed less than he did, another was the gingivitis guy [it also happened to be his birthday], the third was a guy who claimed to be 6'4" but was really 5'10" [I'm 6'2"]) and at least 2 of those men broke down into tears. Sex is a full body, sensory experience; touch, sight, taste, smell, and sound all factor in to your ability to consent to sex enjoy it and your ability to experience duress/violation and hate it. This also factors into other forms of intimacy as well (hugging, cuddling, kissing, some forms of dancing, etc). Treating people like broken toys because they don't respond to your touch the way you want them to is predatory.