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[–][deleted] 51 insightful - 10 fun51 insightful - 9 fun52 insightful - 10 fun -  (9 children)

If sexual orientation is based on gender and these are men attracted to a non-binary, how would that make them gay?

TQ logic makes no damn sense.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 42 insightful - 8 fun42 insightful - 7 fun43 insightful - 8 fun -  (8 children)

Because the idiot TQ crowd think anything not straight = gay. Unless the girl is a non binary man, which also makes no sense.

[–]ukrdude10 35 insightful - 11 fun35 insightful - 10 fun36 insightful - 11 fun -  (5 children)

I have seen terms like "non binary man/woman" so many times, I just don't know why even bother trying to understand this psychotic rambling

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 19 insightful - 5 fun19 insightful - 4 fun20 insightful - 5 fun -  (4 children)

I think they use that when they're more man/woman aligned, but that defeats the purpose of being non-binary in the first place. It's like someone jumping between that point where five states supposedly meet in the US "I'm a man, now I'm a lady, now I'm both, now I'm neither while in the air"

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The one that does my head in the most is nonbinary transwomen. Like you are voluntarily becoming a medical patient for life to go from being a man to a "woman" yet you think you are nonbinary. Being trans is like the most binary thing ever.

[–][deleted] 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

logic was never their strongsuit.

[–]starjellotext 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

That's probably because they're demi-boys/demi-girls. Those are defined as non-binaries that lean one way or the other.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 9 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

So...men and women who wanna still be men and women but instead use infantile terms to describe themselves. Got it.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 17 insightful - 10 fun17 insightful - 9 fun18 insightful - 10 fun -  (1 child)

Not just gay, but gay-as-fuck™.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 19 insightful - 12 fun19 insightful - 11 fun20 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

Only the gayest of the gays use it, usually those who've only ever dated the opposite sex.

[–]AnokiFrench 32 insightful - 7 fun32 insightful - 6 fun33 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

If you are non binary, the man staring at you can not be gay , and gay men don’t look at tits, they like men

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 12 insightful - 13 fun12 insightful - 12 fun13 insightful - 13 fun -  (0 children)

Um, did you just assume those tits' gender??

/s

[–]dreamgermsbisexual nightmare 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

What’s with the TQ+ crowd and enjoying being objectified?

Also, I find it funny that her logic led her to that conclusion rather than, “huh, I guess I can’t identify my way out of being harassed and assaulted by strange men; how strange that being non-binary didn’t stop those men from identifying me as female and treating me as such! Hmmm...”. More people need to be taught critical thinking skills.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Narcissists like any kind of attention.

[–]barnarnasis this tv show my friend? 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

As gross as men can be, what probably happened was one glanced in her direction and she created a fantasy in her head where this man was definitely straight and definitely leering and definitely the kind of person to care about the gotcha. TikTok is full of ThatHappened. (Also who's to say that was even a man? /s)

[–]socialistrobot 20 insightful - 9 fun20 insightful - 8 fun21 insightful - 9 fun -  (2 children)

I knew this "barsexual" girl from my college and she would make similar tiktoks, about how because she is genderfluid and nonbinary, her boyfriend isn't straight. They both are as straight as arrows.

[–]MiaXiang 9 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Ha! I know grown ass adults living that lie!

[–]DestructionI ❤️ adult human females 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Oh fuck now I remember than one girl I've met who went by they/them who cried about how invalidating it was when people assumed she and her boyfriend were a straight couple.

[–]lavender_menace 15 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I wonder if she dissociates hard at that moment and it makes her feel relief from being exempt to objectification 🤔 Wonder if this effect lasts and she goes through life more comfy for a while until she grows teeth and thicker skin 🌈

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I don’t feel sorry for her at all.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I feel sorry that she was in such a situation that she could be indoctrinated into gender ideology.

[–]reluctant_commenter 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Agreed. There are some things I dislike about my life, but I am very grateful that I did not get indoctrinated into this cultlike belief system.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Many of us could have been indoctrinated as children for our gender non-conformity. I know I always was an outcast among male classmates, a cultist could've used that against my developing mind and blinded me for years to come. That one important thing to note about many cults: Their members are victims. They've been brainwashed, indoctrinated through emotional manipulation, threatened in some cases. We do need to stop them and this by no means an excuse, but it is important to remember. They do deserve some sympathy for the situation they were in that made them vulnerable and that someone took advantage of them and violated their thoughts while they were weakened.

[–]sunzzy 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Honestly to me its sad that she seems to be using her non-binary identity to cope with her uncomfortableness that comes with being objectified as a woman.

[–]supersmokio6420 1 insightful - 4 fun1 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

As a straight male, I'm incredibly gay for ass n titties