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[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 49 insightful - 1 fun49 insightful - 0 fun50 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

So this boring straight woman thinks same sex love between men is "queer and offensive"? Fuck her. Plus, "whatever language you want for yourself and your identity" but she won't let gay men, lesbians or bisexuals identify and talk about being same sex attracted? LOL.

Queer theory belongs in the trash bin of history.

[–]orangina5 35 insightful - 5 fun35 insightful - 4 fun36 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

someone should ask her when she fights "white supremacy", does she run around calling herself a "n+gg+r"

[–][deleted] 33 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 0 fun34 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is what happens to rich/upper-class straight women and men who never had to worry about basic needs in their life. They talk about how religion is bad but then create a very cult-like queer ideology themselves. Modern day queer ideology is the regressive religion of the future.

[–]TiredTrendersSuper-gay 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Queer theory belongs in the trash bin of history.

Yes, it most certainly does. I can't wait until I'm in my 40's and this nonsense is looked back upon with the disdain it deserves and/or gets unanimously laughed at the moment its brought up.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 33 insightful - 12 fun33 insightful - 11 fun34 insightful - 12 fun -  (9 children)

I think I've crossed an age threshold where certain things completely elude my comprehension. Is this what it's like to get old?

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, the more I age, the more conservative I become. I find myself speaking like my mother

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

My husband asked me how I became so conservative, and I told him it was because of him. He wasn't quite sure what I meant, and it took me awhile to work it out in my head.

I have a friend who is a newly minted therapist, she talks about how she thinks all of this nonsense is due to attachment deficiencies ("attachment" here is to be understood in the technical psychological sense). I agree with her 100%, and that is what I meant in response to my husband. Once you become securely attached you understand its value, and you understand how the tidal-waves of nonsense that come mostly from the left side of the aisle work against attachment and are likely the result of insecure or disordered attachment.

[–]fuckupaddamsBisexual Terve 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is exactly why I think so many people who suddenly find themselves with a lot of money spend it all on two things: hookers and blow. The lack of any real attachment to someone.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 17 insightful - 5 fun17 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

Yes i'm in my 40's and I found that not only do I no longer speak idiot, i also have no more patience to even try and understand it.

[–]Shales123 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm 19 and I'm at that point too

[–]Uranian 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm 58. Middle age is liberating - you stop giving a shit what the "correct" thing to think is, you have the wisdom and experience to know shit from shinola and yes, you move rightwards.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Same age as my husband (I'm 51).

[–]orangina5 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

many gay and lesbian scholars have hinted that this is what's hiding underneath the identity of the "heterosexual". Homosexuals are seen as more authentic because there wasnt a single person encouraging us to be gays or lesbians. but heterosexuals are given an identity to conform to and when you pull at the strings, it's just sheer chaos.

[–]hellonumpty 29 insightful - 6 fun29 insightful - 5 fun30 insightful - 6 fun -  (3 children)

Their view of liberation just tickles me.

I think for people who've had to hide their sexuality and couldn't openly love their person, ''assimilation'' is indeed liberation. To be able to walk down the street while holding your person's hand? Build a life together. Have the option to marry them and start a family? Sure can be liberating.

But I understand how a straight woman whose never had any problems having these things would look at this as boring because she could do all these things all along. And this is a common pattern with self proclaimed ~radical~ queers.

She has to find other ways to be ~radical~ but the reality is same sex couples settling down in affluent neighbours with their white picket fences and boring but stable jobs are still more radical than blue haired girl-fags. 😬

(same sex couples settling down in affluent neighbours with white picket fences and boring but stable jobs is genuinely how they see people in same sex relationships if we aren't being obnoxious online 24/7)

[–]lavender_menace 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

What I don’t understand is what that liberation of hers entails exactly. Free love? no social boundaries? No relationships?
What does she want except of stepping on other peoples wounds because the words tickle her fancy?

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is dead on. Back when I was on Reddit I came across these types of people all the time in “lesbian” spaces, and they looked exactly how you’d expect them to look. Not to mention for people who claimed to be so marginalized, oppressed, and in fear of their daily lives, they sure like to document the intimate details of their lives openly on the Internet along with copious photos (including nude photos with their faces visible) and other identifying details, including on one occasion linking their Etsy shop for “LGBTQ” fetish gear.

They’re not homosexual but they love to talk about how being “queer” and “gay” are inherently subversive. As if the gay rights movement hasn’t been about participation in existing institutions not tearing them down. I got called a bootlicker for calling that out. I asked if Edie Windsor and Thea Speyer were bootlickers and of course they had no response because they have no idea who they are. But ofc we’re bootlickers unless we’re promoting their Antifa/ACAB/BLM/queer agenda. Meanwhile they’re the ones setting up the corporatized pride events.

Seriously, the the Pride events in my area are run by fetishist/polyamorous types. How do I know? Because their profiles on their pages reveal that those are the other groups/events they participate in. These homophobes’ idea of homosexuality is that it is akin to a fetish/kink like the ones they have.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is dead on. Back when I was on Reddit I came across these types of people all the time in “lesbian” spaces, and they looked exactly how you’d expect them to look. Not to mention for people who claimed to be so marginalized, oppressed, and in fear of their daily lives, they sure like to document the intimate details of their lives openly on the Internet along with copious photos (including nude photos with their faces visible) and other identifying details, including on one occasion linking their Etsy shop for “LGBTQ” fetish gear.

They’re not homosexual but they love to talk about how being “queer” and “gay” are inherently subversive. As if the gay rights movement hasn’t been about participation in existing institutions not tearing them down. I got called a bootlicker for calling that out. I asked if Edie Windsor and Thea Speyer were bootlickers and of course they had no response because they have no idea who they are. But ofc we’re bootlickers unless we’re promoting their Antifa/ACAB/BLM/queer agenda. Meanwhile they’re the ones setting up the corporatized pride events.

Seriously, the the Pride events in my area are run by fetishist/polyamorous types. How do I know? Because their profiles on their pages reveal that those are the other groups/events they participate in. These homophobes’ idea of homosexuality is that it is akin to a fetish/kink like the ones they have.

[–]orangina5 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

these are the very same people who think gay people's jobs is to sacrifice themselves to "overthrow" the system. a minority, less than 10% of society is supposed to owe anarchists and communist their lives and sacrifice themselves to "overthrow" the system. why? what would we get in the end? A better life? No. We're all just supposed to destroy ourselves so these heterosexuals can larp as activists and then lash out on us when we refuse to be their pets. it's funny how people kept saying, "whats the harm!"...their narcissism is the harm because they intend on punishing you for lying to them by smiling. because smiling isnt perceived as pity..it's perceived as being complicit in their agenda.

[–]Dromedary 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Commie societies are pretty shitty about gay lives too, don't EVER listen to anyone saying otherwise. We're first up against the wall for execution historically. We go against nature, it was easy for 20th century communist regimes to just eliminate us.

[–]orangina5 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

if we were allowed to teach actual gay history and homophobia instead of making sure every letter is represented in some distorted "me too!" story, most people on here would have known that these people have a theory of homosexuality making a comeback: homosexuality is a degenerate mental illness and a sign of the decadence of a cruel economy that's collapsed into an engine hostile to all humanity. And....one particular letter within the "LGBT" dont see the importance of homosexuality not just being about sex but about love, romance, long term relationships and marriage. We're not teenagers with a "fuck dah system" emo mentality and that wont cut it when an entire mob (90%) of your own population see you as a symptom of degeneracy that deserves no recognition of humanity or access to participate in the benefits of civil society: marriage, civil rights, the right to visit your partner as next of kin when theyre dying and not be overridden by their homophobic family. Again, the only thing you're allowed to participate in and do within our community is the humanization of same sex attraction. That's it.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 20 insightful - 8 fun20 insightful - 7 fun21 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Is this the birth of 'not like the other f*gs syndrome'?

[–][deleted] 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

liberation

I believe the word she's looking for is segregation. She wants society to be segregated. And guess which part of society is going to have less resources than the rest? Her weird queer part.

[–][deleted] 20 insightful - 4 fun20 insightful - 3 fun21 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

No Mikayla you are not a 'girlfag', you are a straight female coomer on a social justice overdose

[–][deleted] 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These people all need their social media taken away.

[–]SnowAssMan 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Cringe. In the past this would have just been a passing teenage thought that they might write in their diary. Nowadays they pollute social media with it. Nobody cares about you & your identity.

[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 4 fun17 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

What does any of this even say. It’s just some slurs shoehorned into nonsensical sentences

[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 12 insightful - 5 fun12 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

And thus postmodernism was born.

[–]soundsituationI myself was once a gay 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

She's basically calling it a lifestyle choice in the second tweet. For a radical queer she sounds pretty conservative.

[–]TiredTrendersSuper-gay 11 insightful - 5 fun11 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

She could've made it easier for herself had she just used clown instead of girlfag and faggot. Would've saved everyone who read those posts a lot of time.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 14 insightful - 15 fun14 insightful - 14 fun15 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

"I identify as a clown. My pronouns are pie/honk/pratfall."

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 8 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

⭐The Village Idiot⭐

Apt

[–]orangina5 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (15 children)

interesting. very interesting. so she's fighting against heterosexual supremacy in a way. interesting. you know what's even more interesting? im sure she fights against white supremacy as well judging by her aesthetic. is she also a "nggr" when she does that? or would she shit her pants even just thinking of doing that.

this isnt her fault. she's straight. but only gay men have the right to use that word and even then, it's highly stigmatized. somehow bisexual men got the idea it's part of some "fun" package to use in their oppression identity and half of bisexual twitter was "who can use this super fun word and popularize it for fun!" and it ends up spreading to straight women as well.

And if anyone is wondering how to counter the "bi men get called FGGT too!" tell them to fuck off because more straight men have been called that word than all gays combined, doesnt mean they get to use it. white women were called NGGR lovers", doesnt mean they get to use that slur.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 17 insightful - 4 fun17 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 4 fun -  (13 children)

This argument is surprisingly similar to one a user called nettygay5 had the other day:

one thing even bisexuals (bisexual men who like to use that word and ftm straight women) say is that "well, i've been called this word too! YES...because they are calling you GAY..a homosexual. Thats the last word gay people hear when theyre murdered. And when they try to blur the lines with "maybe in theory some bi guys are targets of hate crimes!"..no, theyre not because theyre too busy eating popcorn watching the hate crimes occur in their heterosexual relationships. this whole "i've been called it too" is complete and total bullshit. More straight guys have been called that word than anybody. does that mean straight men get to use that word and "reclaim it"? What a bunch of insincere assholes. White women were called N-word lovers. Does that mean they get to run around and use that word? No.

I think you two have quite a lot in common.

[–]powpowpowpow 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

I think he tried to type a bit differently this time around, I saw a user say he would get away with creating new users if he changed the way he typed and he took it to heart

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Yeah, I've been calling him out for a bit, and I mentioned he should stop with his all caps, which was a mistake on my part. He thinks what he's writing is more reasonable now, but it really isn't. It always becomes 'lesbians and bisexuals are the devil, black gay men are terrible too'.

[–]powpowpowpow 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yea its pretty jarring

[–]orangina5 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

it's simply JARRING. grow up. are you pretending to be an aristocrat's wife at the palace of versaille who discovered some scandal of intrigue? we're on an anonymous internet forum where our next door neighbours are sociopaths calling for the death of jews every 5 seconds lol. what you consider jarring are the upvotes. i'm the most articulate and incisive one here.

we're not here to create some conspiracy of silence and not mention where lots of these problems come from. Then we'd be no different than our neighbours on here blaming phantoms, the illuminati or the jews.

[–]orangina5 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

what are you even doing with yourself? lesbians have the exact same argument when it comes to the word dyke. there was an entire gigantic mass of twitter users harassing each other left and right until the word dyke became repopularized despite lesbian opposition. but the most sacred word for these people to appropriate was the f-slur.

this is a ridiculously common opinion the overwhelming majority of gay men have. do you have anything to contribute besides that silly little bot you use to spam this entire thread? i think you have quite a bit in common with that woman who types in all caps lock. or is that "patsy". are you 2 clones since you share the same exact unoriginal opinions?

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

You only just stopped using caps lock, and only because people were able to identify you from your profuse use of it.

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[removed]

    [–]Movellon[M] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Removed for bringing down the pyramid of debate.

    [–]Rag3 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    🙄 so you’re a "spicy straight".

    [–]Shales123 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    "Respectability politics." Just don't act like a clown and most people won't openly disrespect you. Its not so hard

    [–]grixit 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Bet i know some language that you aren't so cool with people using for themselves.

    [–]usehername 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I feel like she just likes traps

    [–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Why do these people keep acting like using whatever words in whatever meaningless order/way is liberation? Language is about communicating ideas from one person to another, not spitting out random garbage and expecting people to read your mind. If I identified as a Gazorpian, does that mean anything at all? Is it me being a diehard Rick and Morty fan? Am I so delusional as to thing that I'm from the planet Gazopazorp? Without mutual agreement on what words mean, they're objectively worthless. To say that allowing everyone to make whatever word salad they want to identify with is "liberation" is entirely absurd. Your identity is meaningless if you can't define it with concise language. We should be working on a universal library to describe everything in the universe, not removing definitions to free up words for whoever things they sound pretty next to their BS pronouns

    [–]Uranian 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Has never been laid in her life.

    [–]usehername 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    my attraction to men is queer and offensive

    I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say it's not.