LesbianLesbian 'transman' takes T, regrets bottom surgery, and gets closest to beating her wife than ever

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[–][deleted] 37 insightful - 3 fun37 insightful - 2 fun38 insightful - 3 fun -  (6 children)

lots of people told me I could still orgasm post-surgery

You mean a cult based around lying about reality lied to you about reality? I am truly shocked that they would lie about reality like that.

I'm not surprised that trans men have an 3x increase in domestic violence. All that testosterone+realizing they ruined their bodies is not a good combination. I hope her wife gets the fuck out of there before she's harmed.

[–]fuck_reddit 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No previous experience controlling their roid rage + a very legitimate reason to hate the world = horrific recipe for violence… if only there were large swaths of the population warning about how horrible transitioning is…

[–]Riothamus 24 insightful - 1 fun24 insightful - 0 fun25 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Hell, teenage boys can barely handle testosterone. Boys do lots of incredibly stupid and destructive shit. Has anyone heard of ADULT males car surfing and playing mailbox baseball?

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I was going to post this as well. Testosterone makes men go nuts and takes teenagers like 10 years just to handle their brains after puberty starts.

Then a woman goes on T and is confused about the artificial roid rage.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I don't even understand how transmen with bottom surgery are supposed to get an orgasm. Everything that gives pleasure is just removed.

[–]DiveBarDiva 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I read somewhere that it is possible to orgasm after surgery. They lie so much it’s hard to know the real statistics but it has to do with whether they hook up the nerve properly during surgery. Hook it to what.. I’m not sure but since most surgeries are botched I doubt it works out for most of them

[–]Porphyria 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

That's awful ! Both for the surgery victim and her poor wife. But I cannot help but feel a particular stab of pity at the idea of losing the capacity to orgasm FOREVER. There are people walking among you (post menopausal women) who were so devastated at losing the capacity for multiple orgasms (and then any orgasms at all) , we decided a 3% greater probability of CANCER every day of our remaining lives was a price worth paying, as anorgasmia is worse than cancer to some of us. And these people chose this, albeit because of ignorance and other peoples' lies!

The wife needs to accept that her spouse is GONE, and leave , before the simmering violence becomes overt. No one should accept that. It's sad, but divorce exists for a reason.

[–]DiveBarDiva 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Wait?! What? After menopause you can’t orgasm anymore?? And by losing the capability you are at higher risk for cancer? Did I read that correctly?? If this is true I’m terrified to go though menopause

[–]Porphyria 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

HRT is the greatest invention of humanity /slight hyperbole.

(Look up "vaginal atrophy". That's what causes it ; HRT can reverse it, if it's started in time).

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Wait, menopause does what?

This wasn't mentioned in 5th grade sex ed

[–]Porphyria 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Vaginal atrophy". (That's part of why I laugh at various manopshere bullshit artists, who think all old women automatically have 'loose vaginas". Nope.) Thankfully, various forms of HRT can reverse it, if started in time.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What a depressing read

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

She describes T as an aphrodisiac, but it seems an insufficient amount can suppress your sex drive. So maybe she was able to reach it's potential by getting that hormone to the required level(and then some) but in the end couldn't provide it with the physical stimulation that is needed for gratification because of the unfortunate handicapping from her transition.