Women's Issueshow do pre-egg crack trans guys experience attraction towards other men?

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[–]Chocolatepudding 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

She needs a bit of support with her self esteem not convincing she's a man. Just about all of it says trauma to me

[–]SerpensInferna 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

It makes me really sad to read through all of the replies, because what it seems to come down to for these girls is that they don't want to be the "woman" in the relationship. Which means they want to be viewed as a human being with thoughts and feelings and not just a fuck object who is subhuman.

Which frankly, I get. Between the proliferation and degradation of modern porn, and the completely unrealistic, surgeried, and photoshopped standards of Insta influences, no wonder they are so displaced and uncomfortable in their own skin. This ideology is insidious - instead of empowering women to understand and embrace who they are, and demand better standards in partners, it encourages them to take harmful hormones, butcher themselves, and buy into a completely nonsensical cult-like jargon in a futile attempt to escape their oppression.

I say "futile" because it really doesn't work. They are still women, they will always be women, and only a small percentage of them pass. They will still be treated like women, because everyone damn well knows what a woman is.

[–]shveya 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Me too, l wish these girls didn’t have to deal with such a porn-sick generation of boys.

[–]Wanderingthehalls 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

See I read stuff like this and maybe I'm being totally simplistic but I really think these kids need a hobby. And not just any hobby but one that you mainly have to do offline. So while art, creative writing, enjoying fantasy/sci-fi, were safe hobbies 30 years ago, right now they can be something that has massive potential to draw someone into cultish online communities. They most likely need to do some sort of sport/fitness activity, even non-formal ones, like dance lessons, aerial/acro, rollerskating, figure skating, skateboarding, surfing, parkrun, a swimming club, tennis, weight lifting, etc. Just something that gets them out of their heads. And when you have physical goals, you are likely to naval-gaze about nonsense. You may also meet a potential partner, who is less likely to be porn-sick when they spend their free time pursuing social activities.

I think that even though some of those communities can skew towards 'woke' and we all know of sportswomen who are following this nonsense, the odds are still better of a person developing a healthy mindset when they are online less and exercising more.

[–]saidit458 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

So, AAP straight trans girls are victims of some system and not violent, homophobic fetishizers who dehumanize, slander and attack gays and theyre sympathetic characters but AGP transbians are monsters who harm the delicate femininity of the lesbians. Got it.

[–]SerpensInferna 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Good, you nailed it.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

not violent homophobic fetishizers who dehumanize, slander and attack gays and theyre sympathetic characters

victim cultural blinders

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ah the ye olde straight woman who wants to identify as gay for woke cred but can't help being straight so she starts calling herself a man to be queer.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I denied the fact that I liked men because I felt a need to be seen as queer, but didn't know enough about transness or my own gender dysphoria to realize that the reason I loathed the idea of being a man's girlfriend was not that I liked girls better, but that I hated the idea of being the "woman" in the relationship. Lesbianism seemed better because then maybe gender dynamics wouldn't matter as hard, but it wasn't until recently when total security in my gender was solidified that I realized I'm just not that into women. My attraction to men was always brushed off as "comphet" or gender envy but man I am simply a fag and it was never that complicated 🤷

[–]shveya 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I almost felt bad for her, until she felt entitled to calling herself a slur that she doesn’t understand.

[–][deleted] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Usually, the threads in that subreddit make me laugh but this one's just sad... so many of them seem to be struggling with trauma, a mysogynist environment or simply being GNC while straight.

I really wish they'd realize that transitioning is not the solution to those issues.

[–]saidit458 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This just shows you how dangerous it is for gays and lesbians not to have their own culture to experience their humanity from. She seems to be channeling her humanity and identity through a gay construct and think heterosexuals dont experience this. At least now we sort of see how transing works for us and it truly is hetero culture that gives us dysphoria.

So engaging, reading and watching hetero culture does to us what them fetishizing gays and writing stories about them does to the AAP's.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

didn't go past "tsundere"

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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