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[–]JulienMayfair 9 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

"Oh yeah, and I've spent the last few years watching yaoi porn while frantically masturbating."

[–]PriestTheyCalledHimBisexual 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have been to that forum and I read some of the replies from 'gay' trans'men' in a thread to an actual gay friend who is very camp and nellie, and sometimes a drag queen just for fun and even he said how they are just parroting tiresome myths about gay and bisexual men. The thread was about how a trans man knew she was "gay" because she became obsessed with very old Hollywood actors and actresses and yes of course Judy Garland and Marilyn were mentioned. Joan and Bette were not, which he found surprising, and she had no idea who Liza is.

[–]stunaep 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I know that if I start dating a guy now, before I'm out as trans and fully passing as a guy, it'll be seen as a straight relationship which just feel so shit.

I just hate the thought of being a creepy straight girl who just finds gay guys hot so much, it makes me feel so horrible and icky and it makes me insanely dysphoric because I know that that's not the thought that a cis gay guy would have.

Yeahhhh that's not what gender dysphoria is, even a little. She could possibly be experiencing actual dysphoria, however "that's not the thought that a cis gay guy would have" is not it.

Sounds like she knows what she's doing and feels bad about it and when she actually accepts she's just fetishizing gays/being gay or whatever, she feels guilty and disgusted with herself.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Her dysphoria is just her realizing she's disgusting for fethishizing gay men.

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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