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[–]JulienMayfair 11 insightful - 7 fun11 insightful - 6 fun12 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

Well, I think it was 13% in one poll, but it's still a small minority.

But as for this part:

i've realised that most of them either just see you as a woman, or they fetishise you. 99% of the ppl i've been with, this was the pattern

I guess it wasn't mentioned in the brochure.

[–]bucetao6969Ace spectrum | LGB should respect religion practicers 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

they fetishise you

anyone who is queers and complains about fetishes or being fetishized is a fucking hypocrite

[–]SerpensInferna 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I honestly can't get over just how many girls are convinced gay men want their pussy.

Also, I don't know how many of these stories are actually true, either.

[–]NutterButterFlutterStill waving into the void 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I just assume all of these "cis gay men" they're talking about are bisexual men who primarily date guys.

Bis are often pressured to "pick a side", so these guys picked "gay" since they're into men the majority of the time.

Then along came these women who look like men, and these gay-but-actually-bisexual men are into it.

[–]bucetao6969Ace spectrum | LGB should respect religion practicers 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why are bis often pressured to take a side?

[–]JewsAreOfColor 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why would I want pussy if I don’t want tits?

[–]spanishprofanity 7 insightful - 8 fun7 insightful - 7 fun8 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

I think he actually much prefers sex with me because no prep or douching required. Just all very easy and natural. He doesn't miss penis at all.

The way God intended 🙏🕌✝️

[–]Lovebirds_fury 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These people praising vaginas and saying gay men find them better make me feel sick. What a blatant erasure.

I'm beginning to think there are a lot of bisexual guys who actually fuck them. Because otherwise it doesn't make sense

[–]Chocolatepudding 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

'Our sexual chemistry is better with each other than either one of us have ever had with anyone else. All very natural and easy. I think he actually much prefers sex with me because no prep or douching required. Just all very easy and natural'

Woah homophobic!!!! Jeez. Thread continues in a similar vein

However I have a question - what do you make of men like the one described here? Lifelong gay man in the usual sense. Meets a transman and gets into a relationship with him (her). .... Now I'm not one to police anyone's language or descriptors that they choose for themselves. If a man calls himself gay, I'm not gonna disbelieve him. Do you think they're at least bisexual? But to be bisexual and never seek an opposite sex partner, does that make sense? Does it remind anyone of gay men getting married to women to avoid their homosexuality? But these are men who already have relationships with other men. Doesn't seem to make much sense

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

If a man calls himself gay, I'm not gonna disbelieve him.

I am. I got into an argument with a gay guy insisting he was gay. He identified as gay. But he loved vagina, occasionally. I tried to say that would make you not a homosexual but bisexual but he wasn't buying it.

But to be bisexual and never seek an opposite sex partner, does that make sense?

I can't answer that as I am not bi, but my understanding is that they sometimes date only one sex for awhile then switch...but I don't think this is that. Bisexual is a the spectrum part of human sexuality, so someone could be all the way on the gay side of it but not be a homosexual.

But my sexuality was very clear for me so I don't get these guys who decide secondary sex characteristics are good enough.

[–]NutterButterFlutterStill waving into the void 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If he enjoys sex with a woman, then he's not homosexual, he's bisexual. But bisexuality is a spectrum.

There are bis who have sex with both men and women, but only have relationships with one. There are bis who primarily have sex and relationships with one, but do have rare instances of being with both. Etc.

This guy isn't like gay men who marry to hide being homosexual - they might develop a platonic love for the woman they marry, but the entire romantic and sexual aspect of the relationship is an act.

This guy is someone who never had any romantic or sexual interest at all in women so he thought he was gay. Then he stumbled across a woman who looks like a man, and romantic or sexual interest developed along the way, so he tried PiV and liked it.

If they break up, I doubt he'll go looking for another woman - he was never interested in them before. He just happened to like this one because she looks like a guy. He's technically bisexual, but he's on the far edge of the spectrum. Where he's into men 99% of the time, but will dabble a little bit with women under the right circumstances.

Notice in all their talk about finding a "cis gay man" who loves their "bonus hole", you never hear about the "cis gay man" eating pussy? These kinds of bisexual guys aren't into it for vagina, they just enjoy sex.

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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