I heard this interview last Saturday in the car and found it revealing, though not, perhaps, in the way Smith thought it would be. Smith talked at length about all his various mental illnesses, including OCD, and his being "genderqueer." I found myself coming away from it feeling a mixture of pity and frustration. My sense, having looked into Smith's biography, is that Smith is a gay male who has long had a troubled relationship towards traditional masculinity. In particular, as a child, he apparently had gynecomastia, for which he was treated, but rather than simply enjoying being gender non-conforming, it became more psychologically tolerable for him to identify into the novel category of genderqueer. But then, based on the rest of the interview, it's so clear that it's all tied into his various openly-admitted mental illnesses.
I can't help but think that in an age where kids are constantly bombarded with images of what an ideal physique should look like, a certain percentage of those who don't match that ideal fail to see the ideal as the bullshit that it is and, instead, feel the need to reject it by claiming that are -- and were always -- something else. In other words, calling oneself genderqueer is pretty obviously a kind of compensatory mechanism for someone who, in fact, takes gender stereotypes very, very seriously and can't handle not conforming to them. I guess Smith, despite all his money and success, sees himself as a failed man and needs to find conformity in some imaginary identity. I think it's part of the unhealthy levels of self-consciousness encouraged by internet culture.
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