all 38 comments

[–]reluctant_commenter 45 insightful - 9 fun45 insightful - 8 fun46 insightful - 9 fun -  (12 children)

Yuck. Glorifying government-approved groping and girldick.

editing to add: I love the message of this post: "I'm depressed, so let's talk about my dick!" Fits nicely with: "If you don't call me by my pronouns, I'll commit suicide and it'll be your fault!" We love emotional abuse.

Also, this comment chain lol: I swear to god, the transgender movement is gonna eat itself from the inside out without us even doing anything. AGP versus gender dysphoria trans: who will win? https://www.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/comments/kop1a0/comment/ghsvdve

[–]ChodeSandwichtender and moist 16 insightful - 7 fun16 insightful - 6 fun17 insightful - 7 fun -  (10 children)

He also claims to be asexual, so he's bragging about a dick that he supposedly doesn't want and has no use for.

[–]DifferentAirGC 9 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 7 fun -  (7 children)

The newest tumblr lore is that asexuals can enjoy, seek and even be obsessed with sex.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

Then how would you know if you're asexual?!

[–]slushpilot 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I think most of this revision of terminology can be attributed to children realizing that they've grown up a bit and now realize they hadn't experienced sex when they originally took that label.

I just wish they'd grow up a little more and drop the useless labels altogether.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

99% of asexual activism basically focuses on finding excuses why someone is still asexual despite feeling actual sexual attraction and having sex. That's why the weird shit of asexuality being a spectrum and these categories of asexuals' attitude to sex... Me an asexual way past my puberty I hate this shit so much. It makes it harder for me to accept the way I am.

[–]DifferentAirGC 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They usually think they are asexual because they have low libido (like a lot of normal people do). Or they aren't sexually attracted to the people they have sex with (in their own words, I have no idea how that works).

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

As asexual myself I legit hate how they make this term basically meaningless. I see no different explanation for such people to enjoy sex aside from feeling actually attracted to a person they have sex with therefore they aren't actually asexual. Even if they think they don't feel it they must be simply in denial or have a completely different issue. Also I wonder how this type of "asexuals" discovered they are somehow different from your typical straight person.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Also I wonder how this type of "asexuals" discovered they are somehow different from your typical straight person.

Me too. If you find sex enjoyable so that it becomes a compelling interest for you, even if you don't spontaneously desire sex, there's no way I can conceive of that as asexuality.

I can accept that sexual pleasure and orgasm are experienced by asexual people as pleasurable, sure. But if you're motivated to have sex because it feels good, despite lacking the carnal urge for it?

I guess that's a unique phenomena, and it's interesting, but hm... It makes things very confusing for the average person who isn't spending hours diving into all the nuances of asexuality. From the outside, it makes the asexual label very confusing and meaningless.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's so nuanced it can be easily exploited/confused by straight people, who have never felt there was anything wrong and weird about them. I had a sense of otherness since I was a teen. One day I even concluded something like: "Damn, I'm not actually straight but I'm not gay either... what am I..." but these people just had no issues with sleeping with the others and were certain of their straightness, gayness or bisexuality.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

10% of MtF claim asexual; they are anything but. Most MtF are motivated by a paraphilia and this 10% has their sexuality completely wound up in that, rather than having a normal sexual desire or a mix of that and their paraphilia.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The trans-ace flair with the creepy perviness and exhibitionism screams full AGP to me.

[–]blackrainbow 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

AGPs of course, the comment was removed.

[–]Eurowoman24 37 insightful - 4 fun37 insightful - 3 fun38 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

OP sounds like a dude. No woman would relish the thought of being groped or proudly state "just these amazing titties" in response to being groped.

[–]DestructionI ❤️ adult human females 27 insightful - 15 fun27 insightful - 14 fun28 insightful - 15 fun -  (1 child)

I swear all their experiences with women come from adam sandler movies or something

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Jack and Jill was a watershed moment for many transwomen, and will be in the years to come.

[–]julesburm1891 28 insightful - 15 fun28 insightful - 14 fun29 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

don’t know how to interact with people like a healthy human being

Well, that’s for damn sure.

[–]_Moon_[S] 23 insightful - 6 fun23 insightful - 5 fun24 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

We have now reached the point at which the left is as illiterate about human nature and biology as a bunch of creationist Evangelicals who believe that we all just jumped from Noah's Ark together with the dinosaurs some ~4,000 years ago.

[–]reluctant_commenter 24 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, seriously, this is disheartening. What on earth happened to being "pro-science"?

[–]Femaleisnthateful 24 insightful - 4 fun24 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

Why are they so obsessed with genitals?

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 24 insightful - 5 fun24 insightful - 4 fun25 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Men are always obsessed with their dicks.

[–]MilkTea 21 insightful - 9 fun21 insightful - 8 fun22 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

They gotta worship their own dicks since lesbians won't do it.

[–]Rosefield 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because they are perverted pigs

[–]Rosefield 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Al is a fetish sub for autogynephilic fetishists & their straight ass kissers. This fucking disgusting picture reeks of sick agp fantasies.

These men are disgusting creatures.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 23 insightful - 4 fun23 insightful - 3 fun24 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, I can see why he can't talk to people like a healthy human being... So freaking gross 🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮

[–]ChodeSandwichtender and moist 19 insightful - 12 fun19 insightful - 11 fun20 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

If I had a dollar for every time a trans woman's attempt at being witty and sexy had the opposite effect of yeeting me back in time to overhearing my brother's middle school aged friends screaming about their 12 inch meathammers over cheap pizza and Mortal Kombat, I would never make my own breakfast again.

[–]divingrightintowork 12 insightful - 8 fun12 insightful - 7 fun13 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

I wonder how it would go over if someone said "Just a bomb ass female reproductive system. The next Ted Kaczynski could be in here right now!"

[–]reluctant_commenter 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)