Lesbians who only only want to date the female sex only do so because they don’t know they’re actually attracted to trans women.

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[–]Rosefield 36 insightful - 23 fun36 insightful - 22 fun37 insightful - 23 fun -  (2 children)

Though, I likely wouldn't use HER anyway given the sheer amount of TERFs and men I've heard of on it.

Heh...men you say...

Also the OP is a perverted diaper fetishist who thinks he passes 1000% but actually his body statue is male.

[–]HelloMomo 28 insightful - 13 fun28 insightful - 12 fun29 insightful - 13 fun -  (1 child)

Aww, I never met any terfs on Her! What was I doing wrong?

[–]Rubyredpython 11 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I know right! It almost makes me want to go back on there just to find the other terfs. So many missed matches.

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 31 insightful - 18 fun31 insightful - 17 fun32 insightful - 18 fun -  (6 children)

Looking at the post history, this man has also lectured feminine boys for referring to themselves as "traps" (because it leads to eXtErMiNaTiOn) and aspires to be a sex worker.

Also, his tits look like moobs and he wears a chastity cage and diapers. Disgusting.

[–]8bitgay 26 insightful - 12 fun26 insightful - 11 fun27 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

The whole trap issue is hilarious because of the parallel to queer. Anilist (an anime website/community) even banned the word for being transphobic.

People wanna call themselves queer? Sure, even though it makes some LGB people uncomfortable! It's a valid identity after all! And let's even call the community at large queer, and call others queer even if they don't like using the word!

People wanna call themselves trap? Wait, it makes trans people uncomfortable, so let's ban it! And let's pretend no one identifies as that, so we don't have to think about it as a valid identity!

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 16 insightful - 8 fun16 insightful - 7 fun17 insightful - 8 fun -  (2 children)

The username seems familiar but I'm not sure where. I am a feminine guy so, I wouldn't be at all surprised if this idiot tried to keyboard-fight me way back.

Unfortunately, as sad as it is, I have talked to too many wacky TRAs, people who hate feminine males, and diaper fetishists for this one to stand out in my memory...

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

He also claims to have Klinefelter Syndrome so you probably encountered him when discussing issues related to having an intersex condition.

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I'm sure as hell he does not. Trans/intersex overlap is super rare, no matter what TRAs tell you (and when it does happen it's usually FTM for some reason)

No doubt he did a 2 second google search, saw that KS/XXY can cause biological males to have reduced testosterone and more feminine traits, and incorporated that as part of his "feminization" fetish

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 17 insightful - 6 fun17 insightful - 5 fun18 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 11 insightful - 5 fun11 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

That’s hilarious! But yes, also disgusting.

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 26 insightful - 4 fun26 insightful - 3 fun27 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

Though I am the reverse - the reason I'm not attracted to "people with vaginas" aka biological females isn't that I am not aware they exist. I am aware of their existence, oddly enough, I'm just shockingly still not attracted to them. Nor is this something I can change, and I always say that when TRAs post dumb shit like this - do you really think that if we could choose to be attracted to the opposite sex, that a significant portion of us would jump at the chance? I didn't choose homosexuality only to go through lifelong social rejection and feeling like a "failed man", for the record...

[–]julesburm1891 20 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Even if all of the negative societal issues didn’t exist, the numbers alone would make it way easier to date males. (Most men are heterosexual and there are probably more transbians than lesbians at this point.) If I could magically like the opposite sex, why on earth would I have gone to all the trouble to exclusively date females?

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. Getting sex as a male homosexual is not hard. Getting GOOD sex is and getting an actual relationship is even harder. Why on earth would I waste my time wading through hundreds, thousands of creeps, predators, and general fuckboys, for the slim near-impossible chance that I might find ONE who doesn't make me feel repulsed? Meanwhile most women seem normal and it's not exactly common to have to dig through pages of sex offenders and creeps if you're a guy dating women. I also feel like, at least visually, there are plenty of women I find attractive while my "type" for males is so rare and hyper-specific it probably doesn't even exist

[–]WildwoodFlower 26 insightful - 3 fun26 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Seriously, what exactly am I supposed to be attracted to when I "reconsider" these MTFs? Most trans women still look like males. The few who "pass" have had so much cosmetic surgery that they look like plastic Barbie dolls. I am not interested in dating either one. And that's not even getting into all the gender dysphoria and psychological issues that I, frankly, don't have the patience to deal with. If I wanted to be with a male-bodied person, I would just take the easy route and find myself a nice, normal straight guy. But I don't want to be with a male-bodied person.

[–]Rosefield 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The few who "pass" have had so much cosmetic surgery that they look like plastic Barbie dolls

And are also gay men. Transbians want you to be attractred to them.

[–]votkriscan 24 insightful - 4 fun24 insightful - 3 fun25 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I would have found the trans capacity to hone on to every lesbian sub on the planet amazing, were it not for the repercussions it has to lesbians and gays.

[–]reluctant_commenter 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

Didn't know this subreddit existed! Glad the replying commenter stuck to their guns and was honest. I'm not usually a fan of the "woman != female" but this is the only way to say this stuff on Reddit and not get censored, these days.

Also glad to see you around :)

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries"[S] 18 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

Good to see you and all of your posting lately. As I’ve mentioned I’ve been taking my TERFing live and I’ve had some success. I will have to make a post on that later recapping what has resonated the most with different people and where the most entrenched people seem to have the most cognitive dissonance. Haven’t gotten ostracized yet. Have received sexual/romantic interest lol. Have run up against some brick walls with others who are deep in the gender woo. I’ve also begun the process of coming out more at work. I’ve also found myself for the first time in my life spending my time around almost exclusively gay people.

[–]reluctant_commenter 13 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I will have to make a post on that later recapping what has resonated the most with different people and where the most entrenched people seem to have the most cognitive dissonance.

That would be fantastic to hear about! I'm glad things are going well.

Haven’t gotten ostracized yet. Have received sexual/romantic interest lol.

Well, that's ideal, maybe I ought to try talking to more people about this stuff then lol.

I’ve also found myself for the first time in my life spending my time around almost exclusively gay people.

That sounds fantastic. I've never had that experience before myself, maybe someday. :)

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As I’ve mentioned I’ve been taking my TERFing live and I’ve had some success. I will have to make a post on that later recapping what has resonated the most with different people and where the most entrenched people seem to have the most cognitive dissonance.

Looking forward to reading your news from the front!

[–]deliciousdogfoodmy name isnt a puppyplay reference i swear 14 insightful - 8 fun14 insightful - 7 fun15 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

"stupid women not know what they want uwu uwu uwu"

[–]Seahorse 14 insightful - 7 fun14 insightful - 6 fun15 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Its always the ones that say they "pass" that literally look like Roberta from that movie Sorority Boys🤣

[–]DestructionI ❤️ adult human females 12 insightful - 8 fun12 insightful - 7 fun13 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Lesbians secretly want dick, huh? Wow, that's such a woke statement even my conservative, christian, homophobic uncle agrees. Thanks TRAs! You're truly bringing all political sides together on this one :))))))

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 12 insightful - 7 fun12 insightful - 6 fun13 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

I'm the kind of trans woman that other trans women typically can't even clock. I'm the kind that tends to shatter expectations of what we're supposed to look like.

You don't say?

[–]blackrainbow 16 insightful - 9 fun16 insightful - 8 fun17 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

God, give me the confidence of a mediocre straight man

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

https://archive.vn/wzb70

[–]LeaveAmsgAfterBeep 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Fixed to: “Lesbians who only want to have sex with members of the female sex do so, because they are LESBIANS”

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sounds like conversion therapy to me...