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[–]reluctant_commenter 48 insightful - 1 fun48 insightful - 0 fun49 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I feel mildly sick. All of these men think that "lesbian" and "woman" are just degrading costumes that they can put on.

Like, that's just surreal. How sexist do you have to be to hold that sort of delusion? I would honestly empathize with them more if they knew they were men who chose to pretend to get laid. Some do know it's all bullshit, I'm sure, but many don't, and believe the insane tangle of contradictory beliefs that is transgender ideology.

[–]julesburm1891 40 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 0 fun41 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Welcome to the state of online lesbian dating! This is exactly the bullshit I had to wade through when I was last dating. Thank god I met my fiancée.

[–]Rosefield 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

HER is full of horrible men. Seriously these guys look nasty.

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 33 insightful - 3 fun33 insightful - 2 fun34 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

And you know none of them are swiping right on each other. Even though "TWAW", these dudes somehow only want the non-trans lesbians.

[–]hetisachoice 13 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Because if the "transbians" fucked each other, then that would technically still be gay sex … but gay sex between men.

[–]censorshipment 27 insightful - 8 fun27 insightful - 7 fun28 insightful - 8 fun -  (14 children)

As I have advised lesbians to do for a few years, exclude "white" from the search and you won't see any men. I live near Atlanta and have never seen a man on dating apps, although I haven't tried them all. Atlanta has a significant black "queer" population yet "trans women" aren't an issue for lesbians. 99% of "transbians" are white and can easily be avoided if you date women of color.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My mum didn't believe me at first, but when I showed her, she was appalled that that was what lesbians have to deal with these days.

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Disgusting.

[–]fuck_reddit 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Trans people talk about sexual attraction like its a labor union and it really unnerves me. “You aren’t gonna have solidarity with trans women?” Well, um, no... i don’t really have solidarity with anyone... especially not potential romantic partners. I’m harshly judging them to see if we will be compatible over time.

[–]el-sol-duerme 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Why don't they just date each other? If they're so hung up on lesbians wanting to date them, and they consider themselves women and lesbians. I knew a transbian who wouldn't date other transbians. They are hypocritical: real lesbians are "transphobic," but transbians aren't transphobic for not wanting to date other transbians.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

A couple of these actually are cute guys, but this is all absolutely awful. This blatant misuse of the app and language, it is disgusting

[–]Rosefield 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Still mentally ill sick fucks tho

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

True. If they were less cultish and homophobic, they'd be cute

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Like, Sabrina at least looks like she's put in a bit of effort. Although I feel like having a tiny house is another way of saying "I live in a (fancy) trailer but I don't want to admit it".

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well, she also says she's turning a van into a camper, which is even smaller than a trailer

[–]Socialjustus 9 insightful - 6 fun9 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

One of them was literally just a dude named BRIAN. Ugh...

[–]Beryl 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

God this thread is depressing

[–]Finnegan7921 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What absurdity.