Women's IssuesThe current state of the LGBT community, women are "non-men"

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[–]winterwillow 37 insightful - 3 fun37 insightful - 2 fun38 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Yup. I was banned from actuallesbians for stating that defining lesbianism as 'non-men' attracted to 'non-men' divided people into 'men' and 'other' like men are the default and the rest is a jumbled pile and that gay men don't define themselves as 'non-women' attracted to 'non-women'. Someone got terfy vibes from this statement I guess, went through my post history and deemed me a transphobe. So yeah transwomen are women, the rest of us are 'womxn' or 'non-men'.

[–]blackrainbow[S] 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They really hate us

[–]Scruffy_Nerf_Herder 33 insightful - 5 fun33 insightful - 4 fun34 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

"non-men"? We are women, honey. Doesn't the w in wlw stand for WOMAN? Mmmh...

get out of here with your terf shit

“Trans women are women” but the word woman is terf shit

[–]hetisachoice 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The cognitive dissonance is on a level I have never seen before.

[–][deleted] 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

How much do you have to hate women to use non-men? IN WLW SUBREDDIT.

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 20 insightful - 11 fun20 insightful - 10 fun21 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

Might as well change the name to NMLNM?

[–]blackrainbow[S] 27 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Read a fucking feminist book, you illiterate misogynists

[–]Mermer 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You can't be a lesbian anymore. How much you wanna bet the wouldn't date a "non-binary" male and they've said they would totally still date Ell Page basically admitting she is a woman. You're a lesbian, it's not a bad thing. Stop pretending non-binary people are not women and men, you can't erase the realities of sex.

[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They're so fucking annoying. There are so many layers of misogyny to calling women 'non-men'.

Since this post is about 'non-men' it can go anywhere that's woke enough right? Why post it to a sub that says, explicitly right on the sidebar: 'me_irl but for women who like women' if you can't even use the word 'women'? Why didn't they post this to r/LGBT? Or redo it in that shitty MS Paint style for r/LGBallT where one ball is a pansexual demisexual xe/xir/xirs who also uses star/starself pronouns on the weekends, and the other ball is a nonbinary agender asexual aromantic transspecies otherkin demiboy? Or post it to the million other nonbinary subs? Y'know, since women are made up and sex doesn't matter.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 11 insightful - 8 fun11 insightful - 7 fun12 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

"non-men" are from "non-Mars"

[–]reluctant_commenter 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Original post got deleted but at least our saidit site saved its thumbnail, lol.

removeddit: https://www.removeddit.com/r/wlw_irl/comments/lklq5e/wlw_irl/

edit: archive of removeddit: https://archive.is/scZrK

edit2: Image transcription:

  • Across the top of the image: "Flirting with non-men be like:"

  • Sender (green): "Wait, did you just flirt with me?"

  • Receiver (white): "Have been for the past year but thanks for noticing"

[–]usehername 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Could not connect to reddit :c

[–]reluctant_commenter 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Updated with an archived version if that helps!

[–]usehername 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Image still doesn't appear, but I can see the comments. Thanks!

[–]reluctant_commenter 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Oh, the image was deleted.

Here's what it says:

  • Across the top: "Flirting with non-men be like:"

  • Sender (green): "Wait, did you just flirt with me?"

  • Receiver (white): "Have been for the past year but thanks for noticing"

[–]usehername 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

sigh Thanks for telling me. What a fucking muppet.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This goes way back to tumblr gender idiots. They decided at some point to classify man and woman as purely social categories and there was a phase before the nonbinaries where everyone on there was calling themself a woman. They decided that anyone who called himself a man was affirmatively identifying as one who was effectively evil. Someone who agreed with all forms of oppression etc. As opposed to someone who... You know... Just happened to be born male.

Calling themselves women was a way to virtue signal as being on the good team. The whole nonbinary thing seems to be a way to massage away some of the glaring idiocy surrounding the idea that EVERYONE is a woman.

[–]Franklintheturtle 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

it got removed lol

[–]usehername 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What did it say? It was removed.

[–]MyLongestJourney 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

He is getting ratioed though.

[–]reluctant_commenter 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Got 1k upvotes, not sure about that..

[–]MyLongestJourney 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ha,the post was deleted. Seems that there are certain things even the wokiest of the woke deem unpalatable.