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[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 22 insightful - 4 fun22 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

(The mother, Cynthia is saying) He wanted to tell me: ‘I am a girl. I was born in the wrong body. I played with dolls more than my sister. He said that he didn’t like sports so that made him a girl.’ We didn’t even have dolls in our house. That’s not even true.”

This doesn’t make any sense to Cynthia. She knows her son, and this doesn’t make sense.

I've seen this revisionist shit so many times. Trans people writing a whole fake backstory for themselves "I used to play with dolls, blah blah blah, I knew when I was a baby shitting in diapers, I was supposed to have pink poop not blue poop. I asked my mother when will the good fairy take my penis away?" Like... STOP! Stop lying to yourselves! There has to be a special word for this, like "self-gaslighting"? Is that a thing? They make up these lies and then they believe these lies with such a death grip, they will tear your head off if you try to tell them that it isn't true.

[–]hetisachoice[S] 18 insightful - 8 fun18 insightful - 7 fun19 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

I played with Matchbox cars and had blue walls in my bedroom and turned out gayer than unicorn shit.

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 16 insightful - 5 fun16 insightful - 4 fun17 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Seriously! My mom wouldn't let me play with boy toys and I still ended up a carpet muncher.

The more I think about this article the more it bothers me. The school LIED to the mother and tried to lure her in with a bullshit "math problem" story and they were planning on ambushing her with this gender shit when she flew in. They isolated the kid from her, he wouldn't answer her calls or come home during breaks, he was staying with the head. It's so predatory.

That mom was probably so proud and excited to have her son earn a scholarship to a rich white kid school for the 0.01% elite, only to get her kid destroyed by these monsters. And you can tell how delusional the kid is because he's all 'surprised pikachu' that penis removal didn't give him a woman face.

[–]reluctant_commenter 20 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

This is so heartbreaking and messed up. Thank you for sharing. I think it's really important to recognize how transgender ideology has a lot of parallels with past historical events-- the craze over "multiple personalities" being one, the lobotomies movement being another, and potentially the Tuskegee experiment too, it sounds like.

Might want to throw a child-transing tag on there. Pulled some quotes:


Wow. Imagine sending your kid to boarding school and them returning home transed.

Back at boarding school, Cynthia was calling her son to talk about the letter that he sent to her after his return to school his sophomore year. “He wouldn’t answer the phone when I called. The head of schools called, and she spoke to me. She played me. I was so lost. I told them that he can finish high school before making such a big decision [about transition]. They said I was being unreasonable.”

... Thinking back on her son’s earlier disclosure to her that he was gay, this started to make more sense. “I think he believes that being a woman and liking men would be better than being gay.”

The level of control this school is trying to wrestle from the parents is so dystopian.


She told me of a quite famous boy who attended the school with her son, a White boy from an elite class of society with a name known the world over. “They never would have done this to him. That boy would have received therapy to learn to love himself. I always told my kids they were smart and beautiful and perfect the way they are. The school did this because they want to show how inclusive and extra woke they are. David was their pet.”

That's so fucked. It sounds like there may be an extra pipeline or route of vulnerability for black people to be transed-- the "look I'm saving this black person's life!" mentality, by transing them.


Quick summary of the main point:

At this point, I recall the Tuskegee syphilis experiment sponsored by the U.S. Government, in which at least 128 Black men died, fed the lie that they were being given free healthcare. We recently saw a similar poisonous gift in the announcement from Point of Pride, announcing the recipients of free HRT for a year, all given to Black people. Who benefits from this “generosity” and what do they have to gain? The social construction of Black trans women shifts the focus away from the systemic issue of racism and the commodification and commercialization of Black bodies. The “epidemic of black trans women being murdered” is not supported by data, rather it is upheld by those in power who wish to signal virtue toward a population to which they focus very little action but a whole lot of lip-service.


Plant a seed of doubt in a child’s mind—“maybe you were born in the wrong body”—and watch that weed grow into a money tree, then pluck off dollars to hand over to the gender doctors and nonprofit Savior centers.


Cynthia is quiet for a moment. I wait. She says, “You know what the sad part of this is? He still isn’t happy. He cries and says he’s ugly. That he still looks like a man. He now wants to have surgery on his face.”

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's so fucked. It sounds like there may be an extra pipeline or route of vulnerability for black people to be transed-- the "look I'm saving this black person's life!" mentality, by transing them.

I’m sure the mythos around the ultra-vulnerable black trans woman contributes to this. Funny that they never want to get into the details about their deaths and life circumstances.

Edit: After reading the article I note that they cover exactly this aspect of gender/woke activism.

[–]eddyelric 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

David was so young. Isolated and awkward, he was a prime target for Woke Narcissists who use and discard black boys like him. His body is permanently altered and he still thinks he needs more plastic surgery. Sometimes, I fear for the future.

[–]hetisachoice[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The medical-industrial complex has gay people's blood on its hands, especially gays of color. This is not just an act of homophobia, but of racism as well.