LesbianWe really can't have anything...

submitted by hufflepuff-poet from self.LGBDropTheT

I made a Lesbian outdoor meetup in my city because I'm tired of being bombarded with "q*eers" and dicks in my spaces. Literally one of the first handful of people to try to join this LESBIAN ONLY GROUP (Where I clearly stated that it was for lesbian females only!) was of course a whole ass trans-identified male, pre-everything?! And he had the gall to ask if he belonged, bro if you gotta ask, you already know the answer.

I'm so mad! Can lesbians have anything to ourselves or do they just have a sixth sense for anytime the word "lesbian" is mentioned?!

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[–]artetolife 35 insightful - 34 fun35 insightful - 33 fun36 insightful - 34 fun -  (2 children)

Someone should post a honeypot meetup for the same time as the actual meetup. A lesbian slumber party with pillow fights and spin the bottle, so AGPs all show up for that and find it's only eachother there 😂

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 27 insightful - 12 fun27 insightful - 11 fun28 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

GENIUS! :)

And then, just to rub salt in the (self-inflicted) wound, as soon as these transbians commence REEEE-in', be all like: "What? I thought you believed in TWAW and 'girldick'! Only a transphobe would think that this party was anything less than 100% lesbian! I certainly hope you aren't privileging CIS bodies over TRANS ones!!!"

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 25 insightful - 10 fun25 insightful - 9 fun26 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

This is fucking brilliant actually would totally work.

[–]JulienMayfair 42 insightful - 1 fun42 insightful - 0 fun43 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Back on the Gender Critical subreddit, some women theorized that one of the games some TRAs play is to look for places where they are likely not welcome and then try to get into those places -- for the psychological payoff of forcing women to accept their presence.

I'll never forget one account I read on there of a trans woman who came to a workshop for pregnant women and crossed a lot of boundaries with the other participants. I mean, why would you do that?

[–]artetolife 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There definitely are people who do this, and if the target doesn't give them the validation they seek they'll play the victim on social media and get it there. Either way they win.

[–]linda_senora 18 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

That trans male is repugnant.

[–]serf_n_terfStraight Ally - Surf’s up! 🏄‍♀️ 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I remember reading about that guy! What a vile fetishist.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Funnily enough just exactly the same thing straight men used to try on at the women only dance pavilion at the Sydney G&L Mardi Gras after party. Before they discovered they could just identify into the place….

[–]loveSloaneSuperDuperBi 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

If you (rightly) told him to fuck off (or just said he didn’t belong lol), I hope he doesn’t try to cause any problems for you

[–]hufflepuff-poet[S] 34 insightful - 2 fun34 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I just blocked him and kept it moving. Not worth a response and not giving him any ammunition to get the group banned. It's just infuriating that trans people try to invade anything for actual homosexuals. A whole ass man has nothing of value to add to a lesbian space, especially not an entitled man larping as a lesbian!

[–]Rosefield 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You did the right thing. Don't respond just block. Very important! These horrible men don't deserve anything, this includes your attention.

[–]WildwoodFlower 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Smart move. People like that are looking for attention, so it's best not to give them any.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

They search for lesbian stuff on purpose to be validated and stuff. And are specifically attracted to things not allowing them. Meetups only serve large area I think. It isn't much used in my country. In others can be pretty great way for meeting people. DO you live in big city with nice amount of homo/bi?

[–]hufflepuff-poet[S] 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah, I live in the PNW so homo/bi central unfortunately also "q*eer" central. So many LGBTQ meetup groups and yet so few lesbians ever attend, probably because they know it'll be full of creepy transbians. I'm determined this will remain a lesbian only meetup.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Well, at least should be decent for dating. Always said the only way to have a little chance of finding someone right is to live in a bigger city with decent density of homosexual/bi. You could find people far, but it's an hassle and might not work if the person or you can't move.

[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That really suck!

[–]Rosefield 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And he had the gall to ask if he belonged

That's what they always do. If I were you I would NOT answer him. These narcs crave attention, even negative attention. Do your thing and ignore the gender cultists.

[–]serf_n_terfStraight Ally - Surf’s up! 🏄‍♀️ 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Hopefully he’s the first and last to attempt this. I’m surprised he even asked, to be honest.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They ask so that they put you in a position where you have to either confirm that they can join or you have to say no, which will prompt the subsequent question, why? It's a deliberate tactic to force themselves into these spaces.

[–]Retardation_station 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Just be as blunt as possible. Fuck sparing the feelings of sociopaths.

"Natal women only! Transwomen need not respond. You will be blocked."

They'll piss and moan, but they do that anyway. I just hope they don't show up anyway to cause problems for you.

I don't understand the demand for inclusion to spaces where I'm not wanted. All that does is turn the offender into a pariah and possibly drive actual members away. It's going to be uncomfortable for everyone involved. Imagine being the only cis person at a trans only meetup. Awkward as fuck and no one is going to open up and have fun.

If I'm not wanted in a space then I don't want to be there. Simple as.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear how you just can't catch a break. Guys used to just ignore lesbians. Then mass porn access came along and men discovered "lesbians"(bi women). For a long while the fallout from this was limited, and guys would make jokes like, "Hurr Durr, I'm a Lesbian cuz I like women and not men!" and expect women to be kissing each other all the time. Then the self-identifying Trans trend came along, the basementcels united in solidarity, and shit really hit the fan..