LifestyleMasculine women are nicer than femmes on apps

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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Yeah, chapsticks. I do think that describes me and basically most women, lesbians and not. Not masculine, but not barbie .A stem will wear dresses and high heels for occassion, but not all the time. Jeans and t-shirt is normal woman clothes though, not specifically lesbian. If that is lesbian, than most women are lesbians lol I definitely not into the high femme obsessed with look and makeup, but I think many men don't like that either. As they come off as boring and high-maintenance.

[–]censorshipment 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Nah, lesbians definitely carry themselves differently and set off the gaydar. This was so apparent with Jodie Foster and Kristen Stewart and other closeted American actresses. A lesbian and straight woman can dress similarly but the difference in sexuality is absolutely noticeable!

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Maybe, yeah, in many cases you right. I remember I figured out someone was a lesbian from a single pic, she was a normal looking pretty woman with long hair, yet from her gaze or position, I had an alarm off. Weird. But that would be a matter of behaviour, not style. I mean, jeans and t-shirt is normal woman everyday clothes, not something specifically lesbian or masculine.

[–]censorshipment 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Agree to disagree. Every lesbian has that masculine "dyke" energy that straight women simply do not possess unless they are repressed/closeted (which is usually the case with late bloomers who come out after having kids with men... it was always there, people noticed the masculinity).

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Would you say every gay has a feminine faggot energy that straight men don't possess too? I've noticed the energy you talk about, something different which is difficult to describe. I don't like to call it masculine though. I don't know what to call it.

[–]censorshipment 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Although I don't pay much attention to men in general, I do think every gay man has a feminine "sissy" energy. I watch a big buff gay man on YouTube name Walter Lee Hamilton... and he is obviously gay. Lol

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, I've seen muscular gay men and somehow they seemed less masculine than an average man,despite being extremely masculine in look. I guess the different energy about homosexuals is truly real and biological. I guess that's why they used to call us inverts lol

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Agree to disagree. Every lesbian has that masculine "dyke" energy that straight women simply do not possess unless they are repressed/closeted

I don't know that I agree... some women who are gay (or bisexual) I find really hard to guess.

I think people might overestimate the number of women with "gay energy" because those women are just more noticeable. Availability heuristic and all that.