Gay MenSorry enbies, the bros say a big fat no to non-men of all descriptions

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[–]JulienMayfair 32 insightful - 16 fun32 insightful - 15 fun33 insightful - 16 fun -  (3 children)

I think non-binary has run its course as a trend. Everyone is tired of it. It's like some tired dance craze that now clears the dance floor, the Macarena of identities.

[–]reluctant_commenter 17 insightful - 8 fun17 insightful - 7 fun18 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

Tell that to my nonbinary-identified coworkers. :/

the Macarena of identities.

Lol

[–]Hannibalboy93 17 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 2 fun18 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I hope your right, because I can't stand the non binary bullshit. Never date this people and make them feel like teh clowns that they are. gender neutral pronouns my ass, you stupid fucking clown lol

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hope you’re right, but I know people personally who continuously defend non-binary people so I’m not so optimistic right now.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I didn't usually repost other people's whole comments but just ran across one there which lays this out so perfectly.

I have dated a NB individual. I have dated a trans individual. I would not again. I am fatally disinterested in gender. I never want to talk about it, certainly not in the capacity enjoyed by the many trans/NB individuals I've met. In my experience, obsession or pleasure in distinguishing one's identity through gender belies a certain shallowness and conceit that I haven't been able to reconcile. And, as many have already said, non-binary identities produce and reproduce the very gender roles and gender binary they claim to escape.

Link old.reddit.com/r/askgaybros/comments/povt3a/are_you_open_to_dating_a_nb/hd05ymr/

[–]spanishprofanity 23 insightful - 5 fun23 insightful - 4 fun24 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

what trying to be an "ally" does to a mfer

[–]Rag3 12 insightful - 9 fun12 insightful - 8 fun13 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

Lights cigarette

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Looked at the comments and damn. So many delusional people who say that we as homosexuals should stand up for NBs just because society used to call us mentally ill 60 years ago. No, society called us mentally ill because they were ignorant about homosexuality. NBs are just attention seekers who perpetuate strict gender roles, and who don’t understand biological sex. But there are so many stupid people on this sub who insist that NB people are valid and they get lots of upvotes for their comments.

This is why I don’t put faith in AskGayBros.

[–]Cass 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That guy can into words

[–]TiredTrendersSuper-gay 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"And, as many have already said, non-binary identities produce and reproduce the very gender roles and gender binary they claim to escape."

Oh god, these people(NBs,Trans) are literally the not like those other girls memes that were very prevalent back 15 years ago.

[–]MBMayfair 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes! I thought that comment was brilliant. It's like a balm when you read something so clear and concise against all this batshittery.

[–]spanishprofanity 25 insightful - 15 fun25 insightful - 14 fun26 insightful - 15 fun -  (1 child)

How did I know this thread would be a cess pool of assholery towards enbies

aww are the trans activists upset that no one cares about their stupid trendy labels?

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 17 insightful - 9 fun17 insightful - 8 fun18 insightful - 9 fun -  (0 children)

They're like kids with imaginary friends who never grow out of them

[–][deleted] 27 insightful - 5 fun27 insightful - 4 fun28 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

I just can't understand non-binary. To me it just screams "I'm an attention whore" and who would want to date that?

[–]JulienMayfair 22 insightful - 7 fun22 insightful - 6 fun23 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

It's only positive function is to act as a warning sign that one should stay well away.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know that men who call themselves non-binary are men. But no matter how hot he is, dating a delusional man is exhausting and emotionally taxing. Denying reality and language 24/7 is unnatural and I want nothing to do with it.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Staying with someone who force you to pretend they're male and female at the same time is exhausting. I

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Hell, staying with someone who forces you to pretend ANYTHING is exhausting (not to mention intolerable)! Talk about high fuckin' maintenance...

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 15 insightful - 4 fun15 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I got ghosted about 2 days ago. Me[NB] and this guy had really hit it off, dates and fun stuff, we were gonna start getting more serious, but after I told him I was nonbinary he totally just disappeared.

Yeah, people lose their ability to consent after realizing they stuck their dick/smushed their puss in crazy.

No not into that as a gay man. I’m into cis men and trans men

I just... this response is wild given the context.

And honestly I’m kind of surprised to find in a sub full of gay men so many people flaunting their “male pride”. Yes we’re gaybros but that doesn’t mean our “masculine?” energy has to take away from anyone else’s expression or understanding of themselves. There’s plenty of men here that aren’t hyper masculine doppelgängers. If a bear can love a twink why can’t a gay love an NB?

Because having a different body than your boyfriend and both of you being sane is a wee bit different than pursuing a relationship with a crazy ideologue.