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[–][deleted] 34 insightful - 1 fun34 insightful - 0 fun35 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

He could have just said no.

Could he though? These people really, really don't like being told no. There's no fucking way they would have let him get away with just a simple no without explanation.

I kind of suspect that's what did happen. He said no, a reason was demanded, so he gave his reason, then got punched. We only have this side of the story, which means it's likely told in a way to make him look worse than he actually was.

[–]julesburm1891 26 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

The guy’s answer reads like a response most would have after being pestered about his or her rejection several times. If a transbian asked me out, I’d say “No” and move on. If I was asked why, I’d probably just say, “I’m not interested.” If bothered again, I’d be quite irritated but say something like, “I don’t like you like that.” If pestered a fourth time, I’d probably snap and come back with, “Because I’m fucking gay and I don’t like dudes at all. I don’t care what pronouns you use, I’ll never been into you.” I assume most people have a similar polite response limit and wouldn’t jump in at the snap level.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yes this. I know from personal experience they dont take no for an answer. There is always bullshit coming no matter how polite and nice you are about it.

[–]wendyokoopa1 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

don't know if my experience is the same but Need is right. Trans love to bait especially when they think they have an easy target. I was a member of a streamer discord channel filled with mixed company. Somehow I managed to raise the eye(Not sexually) of the server's transcot(Trans+Mascot you know how they protect them like the team mascot) and it continued to bait me because I can sadly be reactionary and despite Baiting me and clearly so managed to get me kicked from the server. Yes They have no boundaries and chill because they KNOW they'll be protected and mollycoddled like babies

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You can always say to him "that’s non of your business" if he asks to know why you are rejecting him. Then again, he can just put words in your mouth.

[–]julesburm1891 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes. I think most people try to be polite and just hope the situation goes away. For women, we have the added problem of trying to be nice so as to not to set off crazy men. (Straight guys fetishizing lesbians almost always fall into the crazy camp.)

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That’s true. Nine times out of ten they will demand an explanation. It’s an opportunity for them to feel like the victim, because it gives them oppression points and an excuse to get attention from their enabling friends.

[–]SilverWolf 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Theres a lot of people saying that that punch was justified and/or deserved. Think they would feel the same way if we punched them every time they were homophobic? I bet not

[–]CuntWorshiperWomenholic full time | vagina fetishist part-time 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Well the only reason why they call words ‘literal violence’ is so they can justify their (physically) violent reactions.

[–]spanishprofanity 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So transphobia is violence and deserves a physically violent response. And of course rejecting a sexual or romantic proposition from a trans person is transphobic and therefore an act of violence, which of course deserves a physically violent response. Will a punch in the face suffice or should it entail being beaten to death with a baseball bat?

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Judging by that, yeah, it might be worthwhile to tell him. Maybe read his other comments from his profile first to get a clearer sense, but he definitely sounds ready for some sanity on some level at least.

[–]CuntWorshiperWomenholic full time | vagina fetishist part-time 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I bet he didn’t react. They behave like that but is only until these women punch a non simp bloke, once a fist land back in their face they’ll learn the true meaning of equality, but then they’ll probably whine womanbeater.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Violence works. Let’s not pretend it doesn’t. It intimidates people.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

These people are in for a rude awakening when they discover that actual violent people will fight back and not stop at a punch.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. Right now, the people being violent are physically weak. This won’t end well for them.

[–]CuntWorshiperWomenholic full time | vagina fetishist part-time 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Does it though? People still follow knowing reality even if they are bullied into pretend they believe trans ideology. Violence is only the answer if someone ask the right question lol if anything TRA violence against people only work against themselves because makes people see how crazy they are.

[–]spanishprofanity 23 insightful - 11 fun23 insightful - 10 fun24 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

No. Punching was the correct response. Should've punched him harder. How stupid do you have to be to take biology from a teddy bear from an +18 movie? Like WTF.

Teddy bear in a movie knows more about biology than the gender folx

[–]pacmanla 17 insightful - 12 fun17 insightful - 11 fun18 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

an obvious girl

Um.......obviously no.

[–]7874 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Maybe I'm naive, and I didn't go through the entire thread because it was massive, but I was surprised to scroll for ages and not see a single person condemning it. Everyone was just encouraging it. I can't be the only one feeling a touch paranoid about some serious faction-based violence breaking out from these fuckers in the U.S.?

[–]MBMayfair 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I did go through the thread, and there were a fair amount of comments coming out against the use of violence. Some were slightly downvoted, others had upvotes. But yes, overall more comments in support of it than not. Also, the O.P. stated she was in the U.K., not the U.S.

[–]7874 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh okay. Thank you.

[–]Criticallacitirc 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I feel like this didn't even happen.

[–]MBMayfair 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm with you there, and a couple comments were too. At one point, someone called bullshit on the O.P. when the story suddenly morphed from just "I punched him" to "I broke his nose". Another commenter had said something about the O.P. having broken the guy's nose, even though O.P. had never said that herself, and O.P. just went with it, probably because she thought it made her sound more badass.

It was so blatant. It was so cringeworthy. You know, the usual.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So many times we've seen stories about someone like this who reports their abusive behavior or actual assault of another person as if the crowd will approve, and someone has to actually show them how to have a conscience. The having-a-conscience verbiage is always added as an edit to the original post.

[–]julesburm1891 9 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

This is the response that made me laugh the most.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Typical thing they do when a comment or a tweet "blows up"—add a self-promo.

[–]dilsencySame-sex community 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

What's up with these fake justice stories?

[–]Rubyredpython 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's to desensitize people to violent reactions and manipulate them to thinking it's okay.

[–]censorshipment 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Normalize honest rejection to desensitized fragile folks. I've been rejected for being black. I nor my friends didn't retaliate. Hell, my mom told my black ass to stop chasing white "tail" (pussy) lol these queers and their activists need to be told to stop chasing cis dick/pussy.

Edit: I know this is a sensitive story, but does anyone remember when a gay guy was murdered for revealing he had a crush on a straight guy (they were neighbors, iirc) on The Jenny Jones Show? These queers need to be scared straight and stop fucking with people. A tad bit of fear is useful... otherwise, without it, mofos run amok and harass i.e. what trans folks are doing because they aren't scared!

1995 Episode: https://youtu.be/NUnd7v9y5TQ

Murder story: https://youtu.be/INHdv-9n24g

[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Censorshipment are you saying it was justified that the gay guy was murdered for revealing his crush on the straight friend? "These queers need to be scared straight and stop fucking with people"...wtf does that mean?

[–]MBMayfair 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I do remember that incident, but like GoValidateYourself, I'm not sure what you're trying to say. Is it that gays and lesbians should try harder to first ascertain the actual sexual orientation of someone before revealing feelings for them, or asking them out? Or were you referring more to the gender specials and their baffling list of sexualities? Eh, fair enough, if only to avoid an awkward moment between people. But yeah, your use of the fear thing has me puzzled and a little wary. Could you clarify?

I do think your Mom is wrong. If you want to ask out a white woman, fucking go for it.

[–]Finnegan7921 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm gonna file this under That Never Happened.

[–]Finnegan7921 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The justification of violence/intimidation is all too typical these days, and a shitload of it is coming from one direction.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I’d put away €100 that this story is fake. I’ve seen enough internet tough guys to know that people lie or exaggerate about how badass they are. Why do I suspect that this is fake? Well, obviously if this lesbian could actually punch a guy in the face, her friends would convince her that she’s non-binary and she’d go along with it. She acknowledges that she’s a lesbian, her trans friend respects that she’s a lesbian, and she’s a woke liberal who posts on r/LGBT. It’s obvious that she would not be able to punch a man in the face, otherwise she would hurt first more than the guy's nose. And if she actually did punch the guy, she probably left out the part where she broke her thumb so bad she hand to get stitches for it, and the guy she punched just laughed at her and her friend for being pathetic. And I bet the laughing upset the internet tough girl more than the transphobia.

[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I think the "lesbian" in this story is a trans identified male

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Good point.

EDIT: But then again, if this is a transbian, there is a good chance he would still damage his thumb if he punched another bloke. A lot of people like him are weak.

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Yeah, there's 100% no way that this happened for real. This was definitely an example of (a) either a completely made-up story, or (b) a shower thought where the first part happened and the story teller imagined how good it would have felt to punch the guy that rejected the friend.

Also, if we assume the whole thing is real, could this person have had a more stereotypical male reaction, immediately resorting to caveman level violence in response to a remark? So much for male brain/female brain.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

In likelihood, if this actually happened, the guy who got punch would have retaliated.

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

For sure. The story just ends with, "...and I punched him in the face."

And no one's like, "Okay, and then what happened?" I'm not even a violent person and if someone just came up to me and straight-up punched me in the face, I'd surely retaliate in some way. The fact that there's no mention of that makes me think that the implication is, "...and then he apologized for being so transphobic and sucked both mine and my friend's girldicks while the whole Starbucks exploded with thunderous applause."

If the face-punching had really happened, I'm sure the story would have been more along the lines of, "Oh look at what a victim I am, this transphobe beat me up and all I did was punch him in the face!!! Woe is me!!"

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

If TRA punched me for refusing to date a Jayden, I would dare that same TRA to punch me again. Then I’d block the second punch, and throw it right back in her or his face.