ColonizationThe ladies of r/gaytransguys whine about not being able to get gay men (again)

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[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee[S] 34 insightful - 2 fun34 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I totally feel you there. It sucks because I was the very definition of conventionally attractive when I was presenting as a straight cis girl, I had tons of guys who had crushes on me and were asking me out all the time. They were all straight obviously but still. I actually feel like I had less surface-level dysphoria and depression back then just knowing that I was a lot hotter than most girls and was the center of male attention almost 100% of the time.

Wow. Just... wow. The sheer level of narcissism in this comment is what made me need to post this thread.

Spoiler: many of them just end up dating other trans-identified women or bi and "pan" men.

[–]JulienMayfair 19 insightful - 8 fun19 insightful - 7 fun20 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

I think she must not have been very good in math class. She was conventionally attractive and had a dating pool of ~half the population. Now it's down to ~13% of ~3% of the population.

At that point, my response is that I"m not responsible for the consequences of bad decisions she's made.

[–]Criticallacitirc 25 insightful - 8 fun25 insightful - 7 fun26 insightful - 8 fun -  (2 children)

Also lol @ how many of their boyfriends are long distance/online and met on discord servers .

[–]JulienMayfair 15 insightful - 10 fun15 insightful - 9 fun16 insightful - 10 fun -  (1 child)

. . . or imaginary.

[–]julesburm1891 10 insightful - 13 fun10 insightful - 12 fun11 insightful - 13 fun -  (0 children)

Excuse you. They all live in Canada.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 18 insightful - 10 fun18 insightful - 9 fun19 insightful - 10 fun -  (6 children)

Now that she passes, dating is impossible for her. Colour me shocked.

[–]SerpensInferna 16 insightful - 7 fun16 insightful - 6 fun17 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

I cannot get over the sheer delusion required.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Without knowing the backstory I'd assume it's a 12 year old boy... what it would be also a big turn off

[–]our_team_is_winning 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'd assume it's a 12 year old boy... what it would be also a big turn off

Turn off to YOU. But there are tons of "MAPs" out there -- is this the end game? Have young women pretend to be young men to satisfy the pedos?

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Have youth of ANY SEX stay the course, so they are all children perpetually groomed for pedos.

Once the pedos are done and over them when they age-out, the abusives can take over with the "adult" victims.

[–]our_team_is_winning 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Are gay men attracted to all that shrapnel in the face? I'm not Gen Z, and I just don't get it. Why all the metal shit in one's face? Does that attract mates? It would attract MAGNETS.

[–]julesburm1891 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Mag-mates.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 21 insightful - 3 fun21 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I'm not asking for much, I'm just asking to be loved by someone who loves me regardless of my transition incessant demands that they self-gaslight.

FIFY!

I wish I knew what was wrong with me so I could fix it.

Your wish is my command!: being a delusional, entitled asshole who sees gay men not as people, but as mere validation machines. There; now you know what's wrong with you. So FIX IT.

[–]sadbihours 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Going through their post history, this person has extreme anxiety and depression and is also trying to attempt astral projection. Feeling like they have to identify as a gay man is most likely a side effect of all their other issues. It’s sad honestly.

[–]JulienMayfair 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Sometimes the trans part is just the tip of the iceberg of psychological dysfunction.

[–]Rosefield 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Only sometimes?

[–][deleted] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I noticed the same thing. Her selfies show her with the dead eyes of someone suffering from years of depression and internalized suffering.

She also had a child 2 years ago (at 21), baby daddy is not in the picture, and transitioned 1 year later. How much do you wanna bet PPD impacted her life choices too?

I understand what she's doing to our gay bros, but this girl is really lost. I feel bad for her.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 15 insightful - 10 fun15 insightful - 9 fun16 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

But keep in mind: nerdy, kinky, alternative, artistic... You're not looking for the average guy

Any guys here that fits this description, you'd better run

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 16 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

It seems like there's cis gay men willing to date trans men, but why not me?

Do you know how easy it is to say you would date a demographic and not do it?

I wish I knew what was wrong with me so I could fix it.

Detrans and get therapy. Because you're taking your female dating hand and willingly handicapping it; Also you're expecting better outcomes as a (passing?) man? That's the very definition of insanity..

[–]killerjen231 12 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 3 fun13 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

She "passes" the same way I "pass" as obese (I'm 5 foot, 95 pounds soaking wet) https://imgur.com/a/AX8WxkH

[–]hufflepuff-poet 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Wow, that's a new one for me...she isn't even trying to look like a guy. Straight up just a woman in a flannel and long hair, what's supposed to make her a "trans man"?! The fact that she's not slathered in makeup?! I genuinely don't know what she's done to "present as a man"

[–]Athelhilda4Questioning 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

She looks no different than many of the girls in my hometown.

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They seem to constantly run into this problem but they lack the brain power necessary to understand why and then just resort to calling people transphobic because they're too fucking stupid to think critically about anything.

[–]Shales123 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Why don't they date each other?

[–]Rosefield 1 insightful - 4 fun1 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

That would be gay...