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[–]MyLongestJourney 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am mostly annoyed with non trans IDed bisexual women identifying as lesbians and having sexual relations with heterosexual men.Especially those bisexual women who claim they were gay but got cured thanks to that special magic penis.

Edited to add : I have zero problem with sincere bisexual women who do not co-opt female homosexuality in order to stroke male ego.

[–]Chocolatepudding 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

It's a (another) theme. Was lesbian, takes testosterone now attracted to men. Are they a. not exclusively lesbian in the first place or b. T does something to a person's sexuality. If a. - one would imagine a person knows their own sexuality. If b. - frightening implications. And how??? A man with a natural supply of T can be homosexual or not, T cannot be a deciding factor. Imo they're late bloomers who don't understand their own sexuality ... but... so many of them? Any discussion welcome

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

They care more about the label of being "gay" than what their literal sexuality is. So it's a straight woman. Insists on being part of lgbtwtfbbq++++++ umbrella so claims to be a lesbian while having no attention to women. Then transitions and gets on testosterone which amps up her sexuality and now she can pretend to be gay while being heterosexual.

[–]JulienMayfair 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Going back to my college days and my subsequent time teaching in academia, there is a long history of a certain subset of women, for example, taking a Women's Studies class and declaring themselves bisexual or lesbian for a while, then, without fanfare, returning to dating men. With the advent of LGBTQIA+ as a club so many now seem to want to join, it's not inconceivable that some of these women first claim to be lesbians. Then, once they switch to claiming to be trans, they can now admit to being attracted to men again while still retaining their status as LGBTQIA+.

[–]stunaep 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They're into femboys but weren't comfortable enough with it before they take T (because they perceive themselves as more feminine than any male), then they start seeing themselves as masculine and get over it and embrace their attraction.

Ironically the T has nothing but a placebo effect because experiments have shown that it cannot change one's sexuality.

[–]Wanderingthehalls 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I suspect that they were never attracted to women at all. But more than that, I suspect they'd never been particularly in touch with their sex drive before that. (Possibly due to medication like SSRIs.) So they interpreted their friendships with women as attraction, along with the current fad for being queer making them want to be gay. Then they take testosterone and their sex drive kicks into gear and they start developing actual attractions. Which are to men because they were always straight.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

In my time on the planet I’ve known plenty of straight women obsessed with fucking gay men who’ve pretended they were lesbians or bisexual because that somehow explained why they exclusively hung around gay guys. But I never knew one of them to have so much as a flirtation with another woman.

[–]stunaep 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Were they super butch or just average feminine females?

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The latter, every one

[–]Athelhilda4Questioning 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

About A: I wouldn’t say that a person necessarily knows their own sexuality. I think that for some people, they just go through life not really giving it much thought other than the pressure society puts on people to get married and have children.

As for why women think they’re lesbians: I suspect that it is for the same reason there are more women claiming to be asexual than men. They’re repulsed by the idea of having sex with men, and assume that their sexual repulsion to the opposite sex must mean that they aren’t straight or bisexual.

[–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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