Porn is a helluva drug

Mermer · 2022-05-25T22:48:53+00:00

B- but- aesthetic 🥺

Mermer · 2022-05-24T17:18:04+00:00

Ughh I hate that I actually know someone like this. She wore make up (She is still pre everything) and was like "I know I know, a man can still wear make up, but something something blah blah blah" or she used an offensive slur that normally refers to a gay man on herself and it's just constant eye roll but I have to play nice.

Mermer · 2022-05-08T05:52:14+00:00

Honestly, I doubt anyone here would bother to actually watch it. Totally not my vibe, but I am watching with Cindy commentary on YT, you could check that out!

Mermer · 2022-05-04T17:39:59+00:00

Honestly I'm so glad I don't understand all the terminology

Mermer · 2022-04-29T15:41:42+00:00

Bahaha 😅 I love this we need more memes here

Mermer · 2022-04-27T00:03:45+00:00

"LwiththeT" barf

Mermer · 2022-04-25T21:59:49+00:00

But they have a disorder so they can be dicks 🥺

Sorry but I don't want to pretend they're not annoying. Ppl will talk about how shitty they treated ppl and then blame it on adhd/autism and then they're the victims. You're still dicks.

Mermer · 2022-04-19T09:40:49+00:00

So your're saying someone is only of value when they sleep with you? Hmmm

Wonder who's the asshole here.

Mermer · 2022-04-19T00:53:56+00:00

Also that's literally the point of it. To not specify gender. It doesn't make sense when we know who we are talking about.

Mermer · 2022-04-11T11:50:44+00:00

Ah yes only male love has validity and it's totally gonna be same as in an AO3 or a Wattpad fanfic.

(Not saying only liking men is political lol but this really comes of as a type of woman who only values men in her life.)

Mermer · 2022-04-03T00:19:09+00:00

I'm sorry (not really) but how is not realizing you like women from the beginning of your life bcs it's not seen as normal or natural appealing? What would I GIVE to just KNOW it was a thing to have that OPTION to simply BE without any sort of special attention to the fact I like girls.

Mermer · 2022-04-02T05:29:11+00:00

No silly, everyone will magically know her pronounce otherwise they're bigots 🙄 Don't you know once you come out it's illegal to not know someone's gender even if it changes every 5 seconds?

Mermer · 2022-04-02T00:09:26+00:00

Poor child

Mermer · 2022-03-28T16:36:03+00:00

What? I never said being lesbian is lesser. I said that the culture around me makes me feel like I've lost something. It's not the case but it's how I felt. Do you know how often I see media that portrays bisexuality as superior? It's been a while since that post and those feelings aren't relevant anymore but I was literally complaining about the media not saying "I'm a worst person now".

Mermer · 2022-03-28T13:45:39+00:00

I couldn't listen to the speeches "As a queer woman of color blah blah. Like I obviously get why those things matter but you got an award for your accomplishments not for being black or gay or whatever. It makes it sound so political (which it was).

Disclaimer: I am not familiar with her work I am not saying something was or wasn't deserved. I'm just saying the phrasing of the overall ceremony and constantly hearing "queer" "woman" "color" etc. Gave me an eye roll. It doesn't seem like it's "my race, sex and orientation don't matter, only my accomplishment and this equal opportunity" more like "I'm oppressed so give me an award to be woke".

Mermer · 2022-03-28T13:38:17+00:00

There's a difference between wanting to kiss someone of the same sex and LITERALLY HURTING YOUR BODY IRREVERSABLY AND GETTING OFF ON PEOPLE WALKING ON EGGSHELLS AROUND YOU. Natural desire vs outright delusion.

Mermer · 2022-03-26T09:58:12+00:00

Have a FTM "friend" she seemed to like me a lot and there wouldn't be a problem... If she wasn't trans. When it got to the point the friend group (especially my best friend) started calling her by a male name and pronounce I just stopped referring to her all together. Stoped talking about her or If nessesary, avoided pronounce at all cost. Nothing much to add here, I truly feel sorry for her. It's clear she wants to escape womanhood but she will only hurt her body in the meaningless process. I can't say a word tho. Plus it's so clear no one actually buys into this but they have to for politics sake. I can see the exhaustion on my bsf's face whenever she talks about her and has to use the "correct" references or when she forced herself to talk about Demi Lovato as a "they" (big eye roll). Ugh I'm so done with all this I wished it stopped.

Mermer · 2022-03-23T12:40:01+00:00

There's nothing wrong with having a label of your own but It is not something to adapt as an identity. It's something personal. You can have your own community, memes and whatever but it is not something you can join us over. No one cares irl. Maybe your friends and people you date. But if it can be explained without special labels it's not that big of a deal. It's not not normal to not be that much into sex or to not want to date/have a romantic relationship.

Mermer · 2022-03-16T21:23:43+00:00

My bi boyfriend likes my boobs

If only there was an explanation 🧐

Mermer · 2022-03-16T20:41:46+00:00

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZML52hwxC/

Link

Mermer · 2022-03-14T00:12:45+00:00

Mean lesbians 🛐

Mermer · 2022-03-12T18:28:39+00:00

As an antinatalist: 🤮

Mermer · 2022-03-10T13:25:06+00:00

Yep I agree 😁

Mermer · 2022-02-27T18:29:26+00:00

As older generations die off and social conservatism becomes less relevant or changes into something else the goal should be normalization so that people don't use this identity as some social statement.

This. Too many girls seem to "be gay" just for the sake of being different and pissing people off. All while having a boyfriend. So gay 🙃

Mermer · 2022-02-27T15:13:54+00:00

Fr, the movement only makes it look like it's a choice. "Women are great" "dating women is so much better". No. Sure, I like being a lesbian but I also hate it. It's so lonely. It's not a fucking aesthetic or something I wish I was because of the world we live in that is not your internet fantasy. This kind of narrative only makes more straight girls say shit like "I wish I was a lesbian". It's so fucking insensitive. I don't like women because they're better. I simply am attracted to them because that's just how I am. I'm tired of being treated like a joke.

Mermer · 2022-02-27T01:11:01+00:00

A guy told me, a lesbian I look conservative 💀 just bcs I dress like a normal person. (He knew I was a lesbian)

Mermer · 2022-02-26T02:19:14+00:00

I can't believe they menaged to make the UKRAINIAN WAR about themselves. Also I'm pretty sure the bombs don't care about your"gender identity". Go fuck yourself.

Mermer · 2022-02-19T20:09:17+00:00

I've seen it multiple times, it's a good comfort movie but it is about denial and coming out so I guess it depends if you're not tired of that kind of movies.

Mermer · 2022-02-17T19:26:22+00:00

Wait what?

Mermer · 2022-02-11T19:32:30+00:00

Sure, that'd be nice

Mermer · 2022-02-11T17:01:43+00:00

w h a t

Mermer · 2022-02-11T16:55:35+00:00

God, I'm so sick of "sex bad, romance good" narrative. Imo wanting someone for their body to satisfy a natural need and desire (and being honest about it) is waaaaay less toxic than burdening someone with your unrealistic expectations of some magical feeling they're supposed to feel and on top of it putting the weight of your self-esteem on them.

Mermer · 2022-02-02T23:53:05+00:00

I'm so tired of being associated with those weirdos

Mermer · 2022-01-30T19:19:49+00:00

Ha! Good one

Mermer · 2022-01-29T09:45:14+00:00

It's ok to have fantasies. It's not ok to project them on real life people and expect them to date you.

Mermer · 2022-01-27T12:25:04+00:00

How dumb do you have to be to not comprehend the complexity of women (and men) and instead think in boxes and call yourself the other gender just bcs you don't fit in sexist, degrading stereotypes.

Mermer · 2022-01-24T09:12:44+00:00

I’m twice as man as you

Whoooop, there it is!

Mermer · 2022-01-21T10:27:18+00:00

That's just delusional. Attraction to women is praised and (thankfully) normalized (in youth culture) but being boy crazy is just as normal heck, even more acceptable. Woman or man, people go crazy when a pretty boy does the bare minimum of being a decent person. And if you're a woman who likes men you won't ever get attacked or looked down upon for exclusively liking men.

Mermer · 2022-01-20T23:20:49+00:00

Yes, I want people for their genitalia/body. Big deal. People do that. Grow the fuck up.

Mermer · 2022-01-19T20:49:59+00:00

Wait, hol up. How is he kinky AND asexual?

Mermer · 2022-01-19T20:48:04+00:00

I guess "women" who don't get male attention are not really women then. Bye ladies I'm a man now ✌️

Mermer · 2022-01-17T10:07:16+00:00

God, if I ever encounter a "transbian" I need to reject I'll just say "I'm not transphobic, you're just ugly". Maybe that'll validate them 🥰

Mermer · 2022-01-13T01:46:40+00:00

These delusional straight people are so disrespectful to LGB and what it actually means to struggle with your same-sex attraction in a world that hates and mocks it.

I'm so tired of being a joke 😔

Mermer · 2022-01-11T11:42:51+00:00

Could I get one?

Mermer · 2022-01-10T17:14:41+00:00

I'm so sick of hearing how much "oppressed" the transgenders are. Like sure, people suffer all over the world from discrimination, famine, violence, and many many other serious problems but sure, rich kids with body dysmorphia are the poorest people on earth because people won't call them special names.

Mermer · 2022-01-10T17:09:04+00:00

I don't want validation from men except I only want to date men who will give me gender validation.

Mermer · 2022-01-10T09:53:02+00:00

I was already nauseous but this is gonna make me puke.

Mermer · 2022-01-08T11:16:24+00:00

It's not easy, I went on HER and everyone had pronounces, I immediately swiped left on anything that wasn't she/her. I started sexing with a girl that had lesbian as her orientation and then later on told me she doesn't care about gender as long as they love her. I'm not looking for a relationship so I'd still love to see her and hook up but it's hard to find another lesbian who isn't into the whole queer trans bullshit and looks like a normal person.

Mermer · 2022-01-08T11:04:16+00:00

As gen z I absolutely do not blame you for being scared of gen z.

Mermer · 2022-01-06T23:01:26+00:00

Well, I'm glad to hear they disassociate queerness from being gay!

Mermer · 2022-01-06T07:14:02+00:00

Just proved you still see non-binary people as their agab

Yeah what about it

Mermer · 2022-01-05T17:08:52+00:00

I'm so sick of hearing "genital preferences". It's not a preference. It's your orientation.

Mermer · 2022-01-04T05:28:28+00:00

Yes exactly, the youth culture villainizes sex. It's such a norm to crave a romantisized version of relationships and they think that not being sexual makes them morally superior. No. You don't have to crave a romantic relationship or feel ashamed for craving sex especially if it's only with people who you're attracted to.

Mermer · 2022-01-04T05:22:38+00:00

Because bisexuality doesn't validate the gender specials

Mermer · 2022-01-04T05:17:33+00:00

Being gay is to love men

Not to inaccurately describe a group I'm not a part of but from my observations no one hates men more than people who are attracted to them.

Mermer · 2022-01-03T12:28:48+00:00

Yk I kinda am but not for the reasons they think.

I often feel not like other lesbians. I'm not a gay disaster, or a hopeless romantic. I don't conform to any lesbian stereotypes in clothing. When I was talking to my lesbian friend about how I'm not a relationship kind of person and I'm mostly looking for fun I thought to myself "I'm just another straight girl to her" one time I joked about how I don't get the "gay people walk fast" joke bcs I'm so fucking slow and she said "maybe you're not gay" like what??

When did a requirement for being a lesbian become anything other than being attracted to (only) women?

Not to mention not buying into their bullshit gender ideology.

I realize this sounds cringey and I know probably other lesbians feel the same but it is how I often feel surrounded by media (and irl "queer" ppl) who constantly condone those harmful stereotypes. I'm just a normal fucking person who likes women. Nothing to it.

Mermer · 2022-01-03T12:14:16+00:00

No one would bat an eye if the girls were homophobic. Even I wouldn't care, they don't deserve to have their carriers and lives "cancelled" just bcs they think something even if it's wrong (or in this case totally right) It's a sport competition, not a debate club.

Mermer · 2022-01-02T21:37:04+00:00

I'm guessing domme, as in dominant partner

Mermer · 2022-01-02T21:31:08+00:00

I don't even have energy for one relationship

Mermer · 2022-01-01T15:08:46+00:00

Congratu-fucking-lations for going after men that'd actually be interested and attracted to you. 👏

What a concept.

Mermer · 2021-12-28T21:33:59+00:00

They said they’ve always felt like they “don’t fit in anywhere,” and now when they look at their reflection, see “a human being so far away from norms, misogyny and labels.”

Ah yes. I'm not like other girls, misogyny doesn't concern me.

I'm sorry girl, but you can't escape misogyny.

Mermer · 2021-12-27T14:10:19+00:00

No one is 100% a woman... Except when you're trans, right?

It's like saying no one is 100% straight, but you can be 100% gay. No. Some people are just straight and frankly, most of them are. Accept the reality kids.

Mermer · 2021-12-26T17:25:25+00:00

It's actually "Wesołych Świąt!" 🇵🇱 Thanks! You too

Mermer · 2021-12-24T23:46:50+00:00

Bad side effects of living on the internet, everyone.

Mermer · 2021-12-22T22:11:30+00:00

Transphobes are stupid This proves trans people are valid

Definitely smart person words

Mermer · 2021-12-20T20:44:08+00:00

Not for me for sure, I want to keep my friends 🙃

Mermer · 2021-12-16T09:49:41+00:00

Bet he won't get boobs bcs that would slow him down

Mermer · 2021-12-14T00:25:32+00:00

When a straight man says he hates vaginas that's just sus. But when a gay man says it? So fucking what, genitalia are gross on it's own, let alone the ones you're not attracted to.

Mermer · 2021-12-12T13:07:00+00:00

God, now my "not like other girls" phase doesn't seem as cringey as thinking I'm actually a man would have been.

Mermer · 2021-12-11T08:35:27+00:00

This might be controversial but what the hell.

This is why I don't get the hostility towards straight girls. Who cares if they want to expirement or kiss a girl at a party for fun? You know what you're getting into with them and it's your choice weather you want to participate in it or not.

What they don't do, is appropriate labels and communities they don't belong in. At least from my experience, they say they're straight and acknowledge the fact they don't want to get with a girl for real instead of calling themselves bi because it's the "right" thing to identify as, other wise you're not open minded and honest with yourself bcs "everyone is gay". No they're not.

Mermer · 2021-12-10T08:55:35+00:00

I've really grown to hate the "Everyone is gay" narrative. No. Some (most) people are just straight. Those comments don't come from people who have the slightest comprehension of the reality of being homosexual.

Mermer · 2021-12-06T10:14:21+00:00

And it's full of stereotypes too. Haha I'm such a lesbian I'm moving in with my fiance after our 2nd date 😝

Mermer · 2021-12-05T13:15:39+00:00

So if I'm a feminine lesbian does that mean I'm really a feminine man, therefore a gay man, therefore really a woman?

Mermer · 2021-12-05T11:37:55+00:00

These are comments under this TikTok video

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM8Wfs2KL/

Mermer · 2021-12-03T00:17:20+00:00

I can't believe people take the non-binary crap seriously

Mermer · 2021-11-06T19:32:24+00:00

It's not a term for a regular friendship or FWB, It's an equivalent of a long-term, exclusive partnership. Does it need a special label? Probably not, I doubt anyone ever would say queer platonic partner irl, but it does describe the specific nature of a relationship to discuss with some close friends or on the internet. Ppl irl just use the normal stuff like girlfriend, wife, partner etc. But within the right scapes there's no harm in having such label Imo. I doubt anyone would bother to explain that stuff to straight ppl.

Edit: I do not believe that asexuality or aromantism makes you part of LGB or not straight but that doesn't mean ace/aro ppl can't have their own labels to put on how they feel that is different from the norm and LGB people can also be ace/aro. (Safe your comments about aromantism to yourself, I've heard it all, I don't care if you don't believe in it, you do you.)

Mermer · 2021-11-02T23:32:28+00:00

I really doubt that, I have completely lost any interest in men, even fictional. I can't phantom any sort of attraction. I'm not even big on sex or romance anyway, but if it's gonna happen, it's gonna be a woman.

Mermer · 2021-11-02T10:24:24+00:00

The song is "Heart Attack" by Demi Lovato.

Mermer · 2021-11-02T05:18:48+00:00

Like I said I wasn't attacking anime itself, I love animation myself but the fan bases are overflowed with snowflakes, so my point/joke or whatever was that that could be something to bond over instead of appropriating the "gay" community by finding labels that could describe anyone.

Mermer · 2021-11-02T05:14:43+00:00

I have the privilege to be in friend groups where being gay is completely normalized so that aspect of me doesn't make me feel odded out but my point wasn't that and LGB person can't be a weirdo or a nerd but that the gay part isn't what makes them weird. I hope you found/find your people.

Mermer · 2021-11-02T05:06:22+00:00

Oh, I'm obsessed with animation myself, but the fan bases are full of snowflakes, unfortunately.

Mermer · 2021-10-31T12:29:40+00:00

Would you look at that I have no dick-related trauma 🤡

Mermer · 2021-10-26T07:29:18+00:00

They use accusations like this to cope with their loneliness. It's probably hard being trans. You what else it's hard to be? A lesbian. It hurts to know how little of us there actually is. It hurts that no matter how amazing we are to our straight friends they'll never see us anything real but it's not a political thing to not be attracted to somebody. You think lesbians are some mean privileged group that oppresses you by not sleeping with you. We just learn how to conceal our feelings and respect women's boundaries. And yet you have the audacity to make us the villains and call us "not real" lesbians. Get a fucking life, there's more to it than dating and sex.

Mermer · 2021-10-16T20:27:41+00:00

I don't think we should be spreading the idea of being pressed about who sleeps with who. Why don't lesbians get to be bi-curious? I think many lesbians struggle with accepting being a lesbian because how it is forbidden for them to even find a man attractive. You can appreciate someone's attractiveness, hell even have a crush on them but never actually see them in that way realistically. And maybe you can even try it with a very special man for the pure sake of experimentation or fun without having to disgenuinely identify as bi. Idk, if you ask me, using men for sex without actually liking them or with having 0 intentions of anything real seems pretty gay to me. Just my opinion, pls don't attack me if you disagree.

Wow, ok, edit: call me crazy but I still don't think purely circumstantial, one in a million probably heavily power imbalanced sex with a man makes you bi if you don't seek relations with men on regular basis. Also, finding a man attractive ≠ being attracted to him especially if you don't normally find men attractive.

If these girls would use some more specific label like "bisexual homoromantic" you'd probably be rolling your eyes. Labels are societal and signal who you're interested in so I do not think it is fair to call yourself bi if you don't like men and you're not interested in them.

Edit 2: afterthoughts, if anyone even sees this. I'm not saying what those girls are doing is right. You really shouldn't be sleeping with people just because you're bored. But if that's your reasoning behind it I really wouldn't count it as attraction.

Mermer · 2021-10-16T07:32:25+00:00

I haven't shaved my legs in so long am I becoming man? Oh wait but I do shave my armpits, does that make me gender fluid?

Mermer · 2021-10-15T08:51:11+00:00

Oh my fucking God, not dating someone is not oppression or discrimination. It is something deeply personal and anyone can date who they fucking want. You wouldn't call a black person racist for not wanting to date a white person, you wouldn't call a trans person transphobic for not wanting to date another trans person. Are gay men misogynists? Check your fucking entitlement if you think dating or not dating someone is oppression.

Mermer · 2021-10-14T11:28:22+00:00

Trans ideology is a religion, which I don't believe in. Being gay is a sin? I don't care, I'm an atheist, leave me alone. Being gay is transphobic? I don't care, I don't believe in that shit, leave me the fuck alone. The only problem is that nobody cares if I'm an atheist. It doesn't affect my career or my relationships. But if I'm transphobic I have to cater to their beliefs so my friends don't villainize me and so that I don't get cancelled. I aspire to be a content creator one day, hopefully. No one will care if I decide not to bring religion into my work because why would I if I'm an atheist? But If I slightly express I don't want any trans bullshit in my work I'll immediately get cancelled.

Mermer · 2021-10-14T11:19:53+00:00

I don't even have words to describe how fucking horrible and deluded they are. This is depressing.

Mermer · 2021-10-13T08:34:00+00:00

Lmao this cracked me up

http://imgur.com/a/TJ8bOBI

Mermer · 2021-10-12T07:33:43+00:00

I like lesbian porn too you just have to find the good stuff.

Mermer · 2021-10-11T21:19:44+00:00

I don't see how would that be effective, I'm a lesbian and I watch straight porn. I won't get anywhere near a penis irl.

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