The creepy GenderCynical dudes are on saidit now...

Tikiri · 2020-07-21T23:59:40+00:00

Doesn’t surprise me. After getting what they wanted, i.e. silencing women, it won’t be as easy painting themselves as “victims” anymore, and I think that’s always been their goal. Victims get sympathy and, most importantly, attention. Narcissists can’t live without attention.

Tikiri · 2021-03-02T17:16:01+00:00

You NEED to protect yourself! I’m old enough to be your mother, and there are few things I hate more than seeing or hearing about young women dealing with stalkers. Especially in this day and age, when indulging stalkers, if they’re trans, is considered to be defending their “human rights” or some kind of similar, dangerous bullshit.

The very first thing you need to do is get it out of your head that lodging a complaint about him will be ineffective because your school is full-on TRA. Fuck. That. Shit. Lodge a complaint! I can’t stress this enough. You may get blowback if you do, but if you don’t then this man can potentially harm you, or worse, and you won’t have any defense against it because you “never complained”. Seriously. This is how the system works, no matter whether you’re a lesbian, bisexual or straight woman. If you’re female, them’s the breaks. I have dealt with and taken classes, trainings on stalking and abuse, been in support groups for these issues, and I’m just telling you what I learned.

Second, DOCUMENT everything! Can’t stress this enough. Just write down, as briefly or in detail as you like or feel: date, time (doesn’t have to be to-the-minute)/time of day, location, and most importantly, how his actions and words made you feel. If it all dies down and he leaves you alone, then you can just put it away, but if not you have an invaluable resource!

Third, file a complaint. If not with your school, with your local police office. Explain what’s happening. Don’t feel scared to mention that he’s trans. Join the LGB Alliance. Ask around for good resources for what to do. This will establish the seriousness of your concerns. I know it sucks to jump through so many hoops to show that you’re scared of him, but again, this is sadly how it is for women everywhere.

Fourth, take a self-defense class. SOOOOO important for dealing with this kind of thing, whether from a trans stalker or any kind of stalker.

One other thing to keep in mind: he may very well tire of stalking you and turn his attention to some other girl. If she’s not firm in her boundaries as you are, she could get badly hurt, or worse. This person’s creepiness needs to be well-known, or he may get away with doing this to any number of women. If that happens, which I think is more likely than not, it will be good to have network of women who can speak out against him as there’s strength in numbers.

Good luck, and please keep us updated!

Tikiri · 2020-10-09T16:16:28+00:00

Why don’t these morons just try being honest in articles like this?! Why not just write the fucking truth, for once? As in: the women/men I desire do not find me attractive. This hurts me deeply. I am now wondering why I ever went through this transition b.s., afraid and angry that I made a colossal, harmful mistake that jeopardizes my whole life, but I’m too delusional to come out and admit that, so I will expend all kinds of useless energy accusing other people of being “transphobic” and trying to force them to have sex with me, just so I can feel better and justify what I have done to myself.

Tikiri · 2020-08-24T16:06:29+00:00

I saw several of them whining, “Trans men don’t want to sleep with you either” ... and yet, every one of the brigading questions by trans men is about whether gay men would date/sleep with trans men.😂

Tikiri · 2021-03-18T15:54:37+00:00

She got a job at the same place he worked, “without knowing it”!!? #SureJan

Tikiri · 2020-07-26T21:26:54+00:00

This makes me sick to my stomach. I’m a WOC who has most of these characteristics, a few genetic but most because I’ve suffered from an endocrine disorder my whole life! It made my life hell. But hey, why deal with biological facts on an individual basis when you can sacrifice women of color to men larping as women?

Tikiri · 2020-08-19T15:58:29+00:00

This is beyond idiotic. Whenever I go to the doctor and have to fill out a form of any kind, there’s always an area in the form where the patient’s asked to fill out any pertinent medical information not addressed in the form. The fact that this article did not bring this up shows how stupid the writer assumes the readers are. The TiF obviously didn’t let anyone know that, didn’t list being born female on any form, and was pleased as punch about it ... until it threatened her life, and then it’s everybody else’s fault.

Tikiri · 2022-05-14T17:28:39+00:00

None of the positive responses seem to be from actual women (shocker).🙄

Tikiri · 2020-07-22T17:49:06+00:00

That’s the most fun I’ve had on Twitter in a long time!😂 The replies are 🔥🔥🔥

Tikiri · 2020-11-17T17:38:19+00:00

Straight ally here!👋🏽 I lurked a lot in both r/GC and r/lgbdropthet before they got banned. I grew up with lgb friends and neighbors both here in the U.S. and in my native country, and just never thought there was anything “wrong” with them, even though even here in the U.S. homosexuality/bisexuality were deemed “deviant”, “abnormal” etc. (b.t.w. I’m old!😂). In my native country homosexuality is still illegal.

I was a LibFem for a bit and dabbled in the t.w.a.w. nonsense accordingly ... until I actually read some books written by both FtM and MtF writers, and the aggressive, almost violent narcissism on display shook me to the core. And especially MtFs because, well, as a straight woman I can clock a straight man when I see one.🤷🏻‍♀️ And the way they harass lesbians is sickening.

I’m an ally because I’m against straight people, whether or not they’re “trans”, perpetrating violence against gay and bi people, simple as that. And make no mistake, it IS violence, whether it’s mental, emotional, physical, psychological, or whatever form it takes.

Tikiri · 2020-08-07T20:44:37+00:00

Good👏🏽For👏🏽You👏🏽‼️ B.t.w., is he still friends with your husband? I wonder how long your other female friends will put up with him.

Tikiri · 2021-09-10T16:38:41+00:00

Am I the only one who noticed that their screaming “No room, no room!” makes them soun a lot like those innkeepers of Judeo-Christian theology who said more or less the same thing to Mary and Joseph?

I’m not religious, but you don’t have to be to get the unconscious connotation of their words - it’s saturated western culture for millennia, and thus, will trigger a negative reaction in most people (in the West, at least) who hear it.

But, these imbeciles are too dumb to understand that!😂

Tikiri · 2020-09-01T15:13:48+00:00

Did they examine her for sexual assault?!!! Because there’s no way all she did was “sleep on the couch” at his house after he took her there.😡

Tikiri · 2020-07-28T03:30:49+00:00

OMG this made my day‼️

Tikiri · 2020-09-03T20:38:04+00:00

I think it depends on the field, but no you’re not crazy! It’s definitely a legitimate concern that I share too. I’ve read anecdotes about how hiring TiMs to fill the “women’s” quota is a real occurrence in tech fields. I can see that happening in other male dominated science/tech fields too, and I actually get a bit conspiracy/tinfoil-minded that the overwhelming support for trans people (esp. TiMs) in tech companies is because it’s a way to keep natal women out, because TWAW etc.

I don’t know whether it’ll be the case in other fields though, esp. female-dominated ones like teaching, and in fields such as medicine/nursing where I can see TiM and TiF employees being super problematic (a TiM obstetrician? GAAAH!!).

You have an extremely pertinent and timely concern, I think. Are you on Ovarit? Because I think this will be a very good question over there!

Tikiri · 2020-10-09T16:25:42+00:00

I think because none of the people THEY desire wants to date or sleep with them. Can’t imagine why!😂 Jokes aside, I think they also don’t want to admit that they’re deeply unattractive people, so naturally it must be other people’s fault that they are “perceived” this way.🙄

Tikiri · 2020-09-27T00:23:47+00:00

I hope and pray she doesn’t go through with it, but if she does the only thing I can hope is that it does not traumatize her to a debilitating degree. It makes me sick to my stomach that a young person trying to explore her sexuality has to do anything physical with these sick freaks.

I’m going to sound like an old religious fuddy duddy (I’m a genX agnostic-leaning person), but why can’t young people just hang out i.r.l. for a good long while (and in relatively safe, public places) with people to whom they feel an initial attraction and see whether they want to take it further, instead of just jumping into bed with someone they’ve not even seen i.r.l.?! Anyone can develop feelings of “attraction” to people online who turn out to be predators. I mean they have entire TV series about this on the ID channel! There’s something to be said for the “old-fashioned” practice of just hanging out as friends to see if it’ll go further.

Tikiri · 2021-03-02T18:08:23+00:00

You’re very welcome! All these tips I gave are things I learned in my previous classes and groups about abusive behavior. I had no idea what to do in such situations, and I don’t think most women do.

And trust me, he will move on to other women, especially lesbians! These kinds of people always do. Sometimes they do this to multiple women at the same time.

And TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS! Your whole body and mind are trying to tell you something, that this man is dangerous. And never forget, especially in the UK, that if he “comes out” as trans and claims to be a woman, he will (if he doesn’t already) have access to you and other women in bathrooms, locker rooms, even female-only swimming ponds. That’s why I think it’s good for people to know what he’s really like.

Have you read a book that came out some years ago, The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals that Protect Us from Violence, by Gavin de Becker? I highly recommend it! It’ll reassure you about the validity and crucial importance of what you’re sensing.

Tikiri · 2020-07-28T22:29:42+00:00

I’ve wondered about this a lot, as well. I think partly it’s because straight men hold more power than anyone else, anywhere in the world, and going after them can badly backfire against their movement. So they attack LGB people who have much less power, in comparison. Then again, so many transwomen are straight men who go after lesbians (for the “validation” by the looks of it), and the rest are gay men, so they attack LGB people for rejecting their advances. I think it all stems from a volatile mix of acute frustration and intense narcissism in the trans people who do go on attack mode. Not all do, from what I’ve seen, but the few sane, reasonable trans people I’ve interacted with online told me they get doxxed, harassed and threatened like everyone else. They don’t want anything to do with the Transcult but they’re scared to say anything too.

Tikiri · 2022-04-04T17:02:23+00:00

You think that’s bad? My son’s middle school also has a GSA, re-named “gender and sexuality association”. These are children aged 11-13! It’s sickening. I’m so terrified he’ll get lured into this (we’re in California), that I’m starting to give him the talk about the TRA agenda now, something I never thought I’d have to do.

Tikiri · 2020-11-11T04:01:56+00:00

I hit like on every positive review and defense of JKR!

Tikiri · 2020-10-30T16:17:58+00:00

WTFFFFF is up with that Prince Valiant hairdo!!?😳

Tikiri · 2020-07-31T02:48:46+00:00

How much do you wanna bet that this same dude will be posting after a while that he’s not getting any dates etc. because the women ghost him or lose interest when they find out he’s a TiM?🙄

Tikiri · 2021-05-04T16:37:32+00:00

“My gay boyfriend” - #SureJan 🤣🤣🤣

Tikiri · 2020-07-18T17:05:38+00:00

Er ... how often have these people been in locker rooms? I’ve seen naked girls and women in locker rooms (so far only females, thank goodness) since I was in junior high. From p.e. locker rooms to the gym.

Tikiri · 2020-07-14T04:52:46+00:00

So happy to find you all here! I was a longtime lurker who was about to post when the sub got banned. I’m a straight woman and longtime LGB ally, way before “ally” was even a thing.😂 Back then it was just an “I don’t see anything abnormal about homosexuality” thing. Nowadays it seems almost quaint to say the word “homosexual” - the sheer craziness of that is still something I can’t quite fathom!

Tikiri · 2022-03-20T00:27:04+00:00

Someone needs to explain to this foolish girl that it’s okay to be a virgin. We all started out as that. Except she’s going to remain one for a looooong time if she keeps pursuing men who have no romantic and sexual interest in her whatsoever.

I miss the days when virgins assuaged their sexual frustration be reading Harlequin Romances or silly novels about vampires with sparkly skin, instead of smutty anime featuring cartoon gay men.

Tikiri · 2021-11-06T18:40:20+00:00

At this point in time, I read something like this and think, “Well, at least he’s not trying to force people to think he’s a woman.”

But, if he just dropped the whole “non-binary” crap (which, as we’ve seen by now, comes with aaaaall kinds of crazy, or at least all kinds of insufferable), I think he might get a lot more interest. I don’t understand why these people need to constantly categorize themselves as some kind of weird “identity”, instead of just being comfortable as feminine men, or masculine women, or just “this is who I am, take it or leave it.”

Tikiri · 2020-09-07T04:10:46+00:00

It’s comedy ... until you realize he’ll probably be walking around naked in a women’s locker room.

Tikiri · 2020-08-20T15:47:23+00:00

Don’t forget, this clown also tweeted that “cis” people owe transwomen money (“reparations”) for all the money they spend on surgeries etc. trying to pass. Which, of course, begs the question: trying to pass as what, exactly ... if women don’t exist?🤣

Tikiri · 2020-08-01T23:54:12+00:00

This is horrific! I’m SO sorry this is happening to you! I don’t even have words to describe how angry I am. Are you employed at the moment? Is there someplace you could move, to feel safe/safer? I know it’s cathartic to say how angry you are, but I’m scared these goons will trace your dating profile statements to you, and then try to get you fired from your job for “transphobia” etc. I’m reading so many stories about people who get hounded out of their jobs, graduate programs etc. for this reason (there’s a story about this on Quilette right now). So, please be careful! I don’t want you to be abused even more by these cretins. And STAY STRONG! I too cried when the subreddits got banned (I was just about to post and join in!), but they can’t put us down because here we are! I’d suggest joining all the GC sites you can (Ovarit, Spinster etc.), and also if you’d like, I’ll DM you some awesome radfem Instas! They’re all saving my sanity right now. I’m stealth on Insta because one of my dear friends started dating this god-awful TiM and she’s now connected to other TiMs including a famous one. I don’t want to get doxxed! But, I can’t keep quiet either. Don’t lose hope that you won’t find someone! I think most people are stealth because they don’t want their true ideas to be public due to the possible consequences. I’m straight, so I can’t really speak for lesbians, but the GC lesbians I see online all seem to be happily partnered (and they’re not older women who had all the opportunities to meet i.r.l. back in the day). I think building a network of like-minded women is the key for any woman navigating the pro-TRA world we live in, but it might be particularly vital for lesbians.

Tikiri · 2020-07-18T18:16:03+00:00

THIS! I mean, it may sting at first, but a sting is nothing compared to the emotional abuse and gaslighting you’d probably experience if you dated someone like that.

Tikiri · 2021-01-04T18:02:08+00:00

Anyone else sent an in-spirit high five to the dude at Ulta Beauty?🤣👏🏼

Tikiri · 2020-08-11T21:23:10+00:00

As a Californian I am not celebrating. This woman is odious - someone who wanted keep minor offenders in prison so that prisons had a ready source of cheap labor. I have a feeling the right-wing establishment will have a field day with her.

Tikiri · 2021-01-22T16:59:42+00:00

This is heartbreaking, particularly for the baby. Is “Ben/Olivia” going to insist on being called a “mother”? And if so, what if OP objects to that - could she potentially lose the child due to “transphobia”? Because with the new Biden administration rules, isn’t that something that’s much more enforceable now?

Tikiri · 2020-08-21T00:08:18+00:00

Yes, I saw that! Women being scared of getting attacked by men in their own private space, even on the internet. I’m So. Fucking. Angry.

Tikiri · 2020-11-04T06:13:19+00:00

I think your strategy is brilliant, actually! The thing to do is not give into their baiting and say outright that the reason you think they’re not attractive is because they’re trans. If you do that, they can get you ostracized/banned/etc., which is probably what they want.

I mean, they abuse women SO much and so incessantly that they deserve to be told the truth (i.e. they’re unattractive) but not the whole truth (because they’re trans). Let them get a taste of their own medicine, but don’t let them have power over you!

Tikiri · 2020-07-29T16:54:45+00:00

Yes! He reminded me of that SNL Mother’s Day skit, where one of the male actors played the psycho mother.

Tikiri · 2021-08-25T23:23:53+00:00

Soooo, a while back I went through his tiktok uploads and ... he HAS a live-in (by the looks of it) girlfriend‼️😳

Except ... the girlfriend is a FtM transman.😬 It’s bizarre! She’s quite pretty by the looks of it, and I don’t for the life of me understand what his deal is. He’s living with an attractive woman (in NYC, no less), something most MtFs would seem to give anything to have in their lives. And yet, in so many of this dude’s tiktoks he seems to be about to start crying, complaining about something or another.

I don’t get it.

Tikiri · 2021-03-19T15:51:43+00:00

This. Here in the U.S. I think the “lack of constructive criticism and proper discipline” was crucial to the formation of these narcissistic monsters. I witnessed this firsthand back in the day - I used to work in a childcare place in the ‘90s, and these children were coddled and catered to an insane (to me) degree. I grew up in the ‘80s when we didn’t have that kind of helicopter parenting, but ‘90s and ‘00s parents I interacted with were crazy indulgent and protective of their little princes and princesses. I truly think that’s why they grew expecting that the whole world owes them love and worship.

Tikiri · 2021-07-29T16:19:06+00:00

Someone says that OP clearly stated that he’s trans before they got to the bedroom part, which made me lol‼️ Suuuuuure he did. And he was NOT manipulative and gaslighting at all amirite?🙄

Tikiri · 2021-06-16T17:02:57+00:00

Wait - why is reddit needing to put up billboards⁉️ Are they losing members?😳 (serious question)

Tikiri · 2020-10-01T16:24:50+00:00

TBH we really can’t. This is something they need to figure out for themselves. It’s like quitting any kind of addiction and/or leaving an abusive situation: a person can’t really do that effectively until they want to. Same with handmaidens.

Edit: forgot to add, the one thing we can do is expose TRA lunacy for what it is - we should do this relentlessly, and I truly think people will realize what’s happening! r/GC grew to 65K+ members, after all. And now they can’t ban us.🙂

Tikiri · 2020-10-01T02:15:49+00:00

Jesus H. Christ the indie band, HOW MUCH do you need to HATE yourself that someone yelling a homophobic slur at you is a form of validation⁉️😡

Tikiri · 2020-09-20T18:44:47+00:00

This person is a PREDATOR. From what you write, it’s obvious to me that he has always been that way, despite your seeing him as “harmless” throughout your life. He MEANT for you to see him as harmless: that was always his goal. It’s what child groomers do. They deliberately act in caring, trustworthy ways in order to get both children and adults to trust them and let down their natural defensive instincts.

Transition is his last-ditch, desperate act to get closer to girls and/or young women. He thinks that since society condones and supports male to female transgenders, and guilt-trips women who express discomfort and fear of them, he can much more easily get away with preying on young women.

And you know what: HE’S RIGHT. If you keep allowing him into your life, including shopping trips to get underwear, he will do something bad to you and/or your family members, though he looks like he’s targeting you. And there won’t be much you can do about it, especially in a trans-friendly environment where his word will carry a lot more weight than yours, IF the authorities will even believe you!

So here’s my advice and I really hope you take it: GET AWAY FROM HIM. Cut of ALL communication and interactions. Don’t explain why or talk to him. If other people question you, just say you’re uncomfortable and change the subject/close the conversation. You DON’T owe anyone apologies and/or explanations.

HE’S A PREDATOR. YOU ARE HIS PREY. Get away from him. And DOCUMENT every single thing he says or does that makes you uncomfortable. I can’t emphasize this enough.

Tikiri · 2022-03-12T19:17:55+00:00

YES‼️👏🏼😂 Plus, he’s also hiding his big ‘ol honkin’ ManFeet!

Tikiri · 2020-07-15T06:30:24+00:00

I think you “do not understand this” because a) you seem like an intelligent, thoughtful person who has a good grip on reality and b) nobody understands this billion-genders/non-binary crap, least of all people who go around identifying with them. I’m gen-X so I grew up in an era when both men and women (of all sexual orientations) gleefully indulged in all kinds of gender bending without even thinking about it and because they wanted to. But nowadays you have to declare yourself something, with all the pronouns, flags etc. that go along with it.

Tikiri · 2022-02-25T17:29:00+00:00

So ... declining to “love” someone because they’re trans is now “discrimination”? Not rape-y and coercive at all!

Also, note the photo choice: the transwoman is clearly depicted, but the other person is shadowy so it may be a man or a masculine woman? It’s weird, either way. Or, am I reading too much into it?🤔

Tikiri · 2022-02-11T17:15:36+00:00

At this point, I always have serious doubts as to whether this poor woman really is a lesbian, or just a straight or bi woman labeling herself “lesbian” because the MtF partner insisted on it. Either way, sad situation all around, and hopefully she kicked his a$$ to the curb before she got traumatized any further.

Tikiri · 2020-10-04T20:33:21+00:00

If they’re going to make up stories, they should at least try to make them somewhat convincing.🙄

Tikiri · 2020-09-23T20:06:31+00:00

This made me cackle with glee!!🔥👏🏽🧙🏼‍♀️

Tikiri · 2020-09-03T17:11:48+00:00

It would be interesting to find out whether the OP is lesbian or straight, because that would shed light on why she’s posting this rant on the internet. If she’s a lesbian then she’s probably wanting men around for validation (be “one of the guys”), and if she’s straight she probably wants both the validation and men to hit on.

Either way I’m hoping there’s a legion of underground gay/bi men’s groups that Gayden has probably heard about but doesn’t know how to infiltrate!😂

Tikiri · 2022-05-16T15:59:56+00:00

I’m a straight woman and this is beyond bizarre. I’ve known and know LGB people in all facets of my life (school, work, friends, whatever) and I’ve never had the urge to “learn” about them as if they were some kind of Discovery channel special.

I think he’s just obsessed with his lesbian friend, who I’m hoping and praying had the good sense to get as far away from him as possible. He’s probably already come out as “trans” so he can have a reason to openly stalk her. What a creep.😬

Tikiri · 2022-02-21T01:01:50+00:00

How sad (truly). Another foolish, delusional man who thinks that becoming a “woman” will help him land dates.

And that is the thing that none of the replies (unless I missed it, as I didn’t read too far down) addresses: the fact that he thinks transitioning will help him get dates shows that the men he really wants are straight men.

And, of course, even if he transitions and gets dates, he’ll be complaining that they’re all chasers. Which he hints at, already. He’ll never be satisfied or happy.

Tikiri · 2021-02-23T16:34:36+00:00

^{This^.} I’ve always wondered whether claiming a disability is kind of like those people who panhandle by the side of the road with signs, plus a child or two next to them. People are more likely to give money when they see the child. It’s a sickening tactic, but it works because it triggers natural human compassion, more than if the person’s panhandling by themselves. So, maybe they’re hoping the “disability” will work the same way and more people will venmo/cashapp/whatever.

Tikiri · 2020-11-29T07:38:42+00:00

If this happened to me, I would be happy that they finally “saw the light” but I would never resume friendships with them, even if they wanted to. Why? Because with people who are quick to drop you over some woke ideological difference that offends them, there will always be something else that comes along that will offend them, and if you don’t have the ‘right’ opinions about it, they’ll drop you again. How much of that can anyone take? It’s just not worth it.

Tikiri · 2020-10-16T23:39:26+00:00

This, during a global pandemic. I don’t want to wish Covid on anybody, but ...

Tikiri · 2020-08-31T21:18:12+00:00

Do these people honestly not see how pathetic they come across as?! They spend most of the article complaining about how they’re not considered “sexy” by CisGays, declaring how they’re creating their own non-normative sexual performances, then ending with how they plan on brigading CisGay clubs in order to ... what? Force said CGs to accept them as sexy?? WTAFFFF.

Tikiri · 2020-07-20T23:40:06+00:00

FYI, this is the same dude who wrote an article in Vice about how he interviewed all his past crushes about why they didn’t want to date him. He needs to form some kind of club with that Alok guy and that Jacob Tobia guy, demanding that men date them and how those who don’t are transphobic, etc., etc. The entertainment value in that sh*tshow would be awesome!

Tikiri · 2021-07-07T17:29:49+00:00

It’s obvious to me that she either has a crush on her “aide”, or hates him because he’s a “cis gay” - isn’t this a very clear conflict of some sort, that would require her getting another aide?? I truly hope someone notifies whatever agency employs the aide.

Tikiri · 2021-07-01T18:42:45+00:00

I’ve been seeing so many pics like this on instagram!😂

Tikiri · 2021-05-11T15:51:58+00:00

I thought that too. Especially because “she” (taking her at her word) is careful to insist that she’s not MtF ... which seemed really weird!

Tikiri · 2021-05-01T04:29:25+00:00

I thought the same thing! Like, as a parent it makes NO sense that you’d go to freakin’ Reddit for info about how to explain any kind of sex to a teenager. There are enough resources, both good and bad, online. I don’t know ... maybe I’m just too old and prudish, but I find this woman’s question way too bizarre. Almost fetishistic. Blecchhhh.

Tikiri · 2020-11-11T22:42:20+00:00

When I first read the HP books years ago, I liked them but wasn’t blown away (I was probably too old for that) so I gave them 3-4 star ratings. Then, when the whole JKR pile-on happened, I went right back and changed all my reviews to 5-stars!😂

Tikiri · 2020-09-09T23:18:11+00:00

I honestly don’t think they’re gay (at least not most of them). Bisexual? Maybe. But from what I’ve seen of these people online, my guess is they’re just mostly frustrated (that they can’t get with real lesbians), and horny, so they just turn to each other and call themselves “lesbians.” I’ve also seen some date straight or bi women and, again, slap the “lesbian” label on themselves and their partners. Someone I know is doing this now. Obviously I don’t have any scientific proof of any of this, but that’s what I see over and over again. I also think that’s why they’re trying to force everyone on this planet to accept that they’re Lesbians. To try and hide the reality (of them being male) that stares them in the face every day.

Because if you compare them to other transwomen (Rose of Dawn, Blair White for example) who accept the fact that they’re biological males, it becomes apparent that these transwomen don’t go around insisting on labels for themselves. Unless I’m missing something I’ve never heard them insist that they’re lesbians, or straight women, or whatever.

Tikiri · 2020-08-19T16:06:16+00:00

Well of course it’s “vital” - without Nonbinary Representation (TM), preferably everywhere on this damn planet and addressed every single time someone opens their mouth on TV, Jacob Tobia would never have a job.🙄

Tikiri · 2020-10-13T01:47:34+00:00

She’s lucky she’s an attractive young white woman, that’s all I have to say. Bullshit like this will only work with people like her, and honestly I think it’ll make sexual prospects worse for any NBs who don’t look anything like her (since she’s giving this ‘advice’ as a set of rules applicable to all T/NB folx).

Tikiri · 2020-08-06T17:36:44+00:00

He just wants to be able to walk around women’s locker rooms (without the pink underwear - or any clothes) in front of underaged girls, frail old women and sexual assault survivors.

Tikiri · 2020-07-29T16:50:20+00:00

Yup. I mean, they already have sh*t like “astralgender” and “watergender” and various animal genders (forget the names, surprise) ... Fujiogender is the next, er, logical step.😂

Tikiri · 2020-07-17T17:16:06+00:00

What does this man even want: biological females who are Femme, or just anyone who identifies as Femme? It’s totally unclear.

Tikiri · 2022-02-15T17:02:15+00:00

It’s their default reply. Gets thrown at women constantly if we don’t consider MtFs true-and-honest women. Doesn’t matter if we’re homo/bi/hetero, they just screech “racism!!!” whenever they don’t get what they want.

Tikiri · 2021-11-04T03:40:21+00:00

I’m a straight woman and would choose the mealworms too!🤣🤣🤣

Tikiri · 2021-10-17T04:35:27+00:00

Am I the only one who watched this and felt horrified for the child the skirt-wearing one’s pregnant with⁉️😳

Tikiri · 2021-09-19T04:38:12+00:00

She describes herself as a “masculine-aligned non-binary”, sooooo ... a woman who desperately wants to be a man but still be able to date women?🤷🏻‍♀️

Tikiri · 2021-08-31T16:01:22+00:00

It’s awesome to see young people countering this deranged TQ nonsense!

Tikiri · 2021-06-27T17:49:37+00:00

Y’all ... that Pride flag’s going to get even uglier, isn’t it? I don’t even want to know what the “systems” stripe is going to look like.😬

Tikiri · 2021-04-27T17:14:52+00:00

As a mother of a special-needs child, this video both made me furious and broke my heart. I couldn’t get the thought out of my head: what if someone treated my child like this, one day?!! Broke his spirit and then filmed it?!!

It’s already SO difficult for developmentally challenged people to find jobs! This is something parents and caregivers of developmentally challenged kids lose sleep worrying over, every single day. Here’s a company that gave this young man a chance, to earn a living and have some pride and independence, and it just gets destroyed by some p.o.s. with a superiority complex. Who is impervious to the censure and condemnation he so deserves because of his race!?

Why doesn’t he think about all the black kids with developmental disabilities? How they could end up getting treated because of his internet hissy-fit?

When is this going to stop?

Tikiri · 2020-12-07T17:20:01+00:00

Don’t want to give these folx any more ideas, but their raging flag fetish makes me think that Flagsexual may be the next thing.

Tikiri · 2020-09-06T19:00:08+00:00

Question: what would happen if someone who’s openly GC and/or critical of TRA narrative/tactics (Julie Bindel, Andrew Doyle, Allison Bailey et al.) gets on this train?? Would they get kicked out, harassed throughout the trip, both?

Tikiri · 2022-05-11T22:16:00+00:00

I don’t know ... I just don’t think this will happen, at least not in our lifetime. Now, I may just be a hopeless “look on the bright side” optimist, or maybe clueless about the intricacies of legal procedures, especially when it comes to the SC.

However, the fact remains that most American conservatives oppose abortion, whereas most conservatives seem to be okay with gay marriage and gay people in general. I live in a conservative area and no right-wing person I know is against LGB people, and we’re talking diehard MAGA people here.

That said, trans is a totally different story! The only people I know who support hardcore trans ideology and gender ideology are very left wing people. And maybe that’s the thing: the more LGB people align themselves with transgenderism, the more support they’ll lose with conservative heterosexuals.

But for now, there are too many high-level conservatives who are LGB, or have family members who are (cf. Dick Cheney!), so I just don’t think the anti-LGB sentiment is there the way anti-abortion and anti-gender ideology views are.

Tikiri · 2022-04-22T16:15:31+00:00

Ben Appel is a fantastic writer! Last year, I read an amazing article he wrote in Quilette:

https://quillette.com/2021/07/08/as-a-gay-child-in-a-christian-cult-i-was-taught-to-hate-myself-then-i-joined-the-church-of-social-justice-and-nothing-changed/

It goes deeper into how cult-like the alphabet mafia is. Really insightful and sobering. Highly recommend!

Tikiri · 2021-11-16T16:57:25+00:00

This is the same person who went on a massive twitter rant about straight men not being into him because, well, duh.

His whole issue seems to be that he can’t accept himself as a feminine gay man. As unintentionally hilarious as he is, it’s also deeply sad and makes you realize just how harmful gender ideology is.

Tikiri · 2021-01-18T02:06:02+00:00

Why do I get the feeling “Mey Rude” wants to play this character?😂

Tikiri · 2020-10-29T16:37:01+00:00

Okay, so if she’s transgender, why did she (with great relief, as I recall) discard the ‘male’ clothes/persona and NEVER go back to them for the rest of the movie⁉️

Also, the screeching, almost hysterical desperation in that post is seriously concerning.

Tikiri · 2020-10-19T16:26:49+00:00

Awesome‼️👏🏽

Tikiri · 2020-09-03T17:33:29+00:00

That explains a lot! Especially because it’s a conservative area (as described in the post), so there are probably not a lot of out gay and bi men to hit on.

Tikiri · 2020-08-25T16:01:53+00:00

What will happen: men will win the majority (if not all) of the awards.

Tikiri · 2020-07-14T20:07:37+00:00

I’m a South Asian woman (and immigrant) and I think this pathetic, untalented, narcissistic ghoul is a waste of internet space. I can’t for the life of me understand why communities from my part of the world want to give him any attention. If he had anything even remotely thoughtful or even interesting to say that would be one thing, but it just boggles my mind why this extraordinarily privileged person (a Stanford grad from a wealthy family) is indulged constant screeching about how “oppressed” he is because he gets laughed at or called slurs on the street because he dresses like he does. Meanwhile, actual females can’t even walk on the streets in places like India without being in danger of rape and murder.

Tikiri · 2021-04-06T16:04:01+00:00

This makes me SO freakin’ thankful that our local guybrarian is just a normal young, gay man who’s super helpful and also a huge Harry Potter fan (yay!). This is California, so that’s significant!

Tikiri · 2022-10-25T16:14:27+00:00

This is just sad (truly). She still looks like a woman no matter how much she tries to hide it with the facial hair, etc. And she looks miserable. I have a feeling there weren’t ant takers at the sauna.

Why do they do this to themselves?? I mean, I know why, but it never fails to baffle me.

Tikiri · 2022-02-07T16:53:58+00:00

This is p.s.a. for male chasers, isn’t it? As a woman, I can’t even fathom another woman acting the way this man thinks they do.😂

Tikiri · 2020-10-10T02:09:33+00:00

Oh absolutely. Lying on the internet is the easiest thing to do, and if it gets them easy woke points then it’s a no-brained.

Tikiri · 2020-10-09T21:13:59+00:00

THIS!👏🏽 Also, I think they get so much constant “affirmation” on Reddit and other online TRA places, especially from handmaidens chanting, “Of course lesbians/gay men are attracted to you! I’d totally date you!” (🙄) that they think this is how the real world operates too.

Tikiri · 2020-07-30T01:20:06+00:00

I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Is there any way you can get off of Twitter? I hardly go on there anymore due to the TRA/Identitarian ghouls, even though I used to enjoy interacting with really cool people. I deleted Facebook completely too. I’m on Instagram, which isn’t ideal but isn’t as bad ... yet!

I too am beginning to think that this is a time when women and LGB people need to find ways to really organize and strategize about how to combat both the Trans menace and the alarming destruction of our civil rights, not to mention our very existence. Because that’s really what they’re trying to do, destroy anything - from words to laws - that mark our existence on this planet. The fact that they seem to be getting away with this is one of the most deeply terrifying things I have ever witnessed.

Tikiri · 2021-11-19T17:15:58+00:00

Wait ...why is the one on the left wearing a bad wig in bed⁉️😬

Tikiri · 2021-06-27T17:55:36+00:00

This makes her look like some low-level troll, which I don’t think she is, buuut ... the sign’s close to looking like “white dykes do it better”, kind of like that famous Led Zeppelin t-shirt Robert Plant wore with the slogan “nurses do it better”!😂

Tikiri · 2020-10-09T16:21:56+00:00

They also never consider the fact that maybe people don’t want to date people of a certain race/religion/culture because they’ve already done that, perhaps multiple times, and had such awful, traumatizing experiences that they don’t want to do that again, ever.

🔔DING DING DING!!🔔

Tikiri · 2020-06-30T03:59:09+00:00

I am SO sorry for what you’re going through. I’m a GC “refugee” too and I feel totally alone, like you. I lurked there for over a year because I was terrified of getting doxxed. But I just thought, no more. Can’t live in hiding all my life. So, here I am. You are not alone!🙂

Tikiri